too shy for love

[tyler ftw]

ok well there are a few girls i like but one in particular that has been my friend for about a year and a half now and i really like her but im to shy to ask her out becuse im afraid it might destroy are friendship and like i meen i see her every day and we talk all the time but when we talk it is just impossible for me not to think about me and her being together and i just dont know how to over come the fear and shyness of asking her out plz help me!!

[Mzor203]

Okay, you have already realized the one big danger of asking her out, which would be that your friendship could be ruined. That's a good start, it means you've been assessing the issues.

Now, it is possible that if she rejects you, things will become very awkward between you two, to the point where communication may cease. You have to think about this. Do you want to put your friendship in jeopardy? Is it worth it? If you think it is, then ask yourself this. Do you think that she likes you? What are the odds of her saying yes? If you don't think she likes you, it would be wise to refrain from asking her out. However, if you think she does like you, then maybe you will think it is worth it.

Ultimately it is a choice that you yourself must make. Just make sure you think it through before you do, and do what you think is best. Also realize that there is always the risk of your friendship being ruined.

[Gumleaf]

well if you are afraid of it ruining or damaging your friendship, then i would suggest that you try and put your feelings for her aside and just be good friends. sometimes being good friends can be more meaningful and beneficial then being a couple anyways. however, if you do want to ask her out, there is no need to stress about it, even though thats a natural reaction. you don't need to do or say anything outrageous. maybe just ask her to go to a movie or if you feel a little more brave you could just simply say that you like her. but in the end the decision is yours on how to handle your feelings, but those are a couple of options for you.

[weredemon]

ok well there are a few girls i like but one in particular that has been my friend for about a year and a half now and i really like her but im to shy to ask her out becuse im afraid it might destroy are friendship and like i meen i see her every day and we talk all the time but when we talk it is just impossible for me not to think about me and her being together and i just dont know how to over come the fear and shyness of asking her out plz help me!!
You could just be nice if u get the courage to do u it u might get feelings for someone else i got this imformation from myself my gf and i love each other:wub: :cool::yeah: