plz help me i cnt stop

[xxhunnibunnixx]

my mum is really horribel to me most of the time its really getting me down i have tryed writing poems and stuff like that it helped to let my anger out but i still cut offten deep ones to i feel as tho i cnt stop because it takes my mind off things that happen to me :? i think i need help please could you talk to me to get things out in the open or if any one like me wants to talk i will talk to them pm me plz !!!1 :cry:

[-Silence]

Hey.

:hug:

When you cut, is it because you are angry? Or because you just want to forget, and that's your way of doing it?

Maybe try a hobby? Kickboxing, something that can take out the anger and also distract you?

Take care.

[xxhunnibunnixx]

yh its mainly to get rid of the pain of lkife i have a really hard life i h8 it its my way of escaping :cry:

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

dude, dont stop. theres no reason to if it lets u escape ok?


Patch says: try not to encourage please man

[xxhunnibunnixx]

ok

[///James///]

no dont listen to him!

my best advice is thinking that cutting is your biggest enemie. When you cut you are letting them win; if you dont, your making it weaker. There will be days when the temptation wont shut the fuck up then there is others when it is totaly asleep, all you have to do is try your complete hardest NOT to give into the fucker!

[Kiros]

dude, dont stop. theres no reason to if it lets u escape ok?

So you're giving advice to actually keep cutting? This forum section is to help those who cut and harm themselves to stop, not to advocate these acts :?

Look, hunnibunni, I know it's hard to quit, but you can do it. Every time you feel like cutting, just try snapping your fingers, or something that you can do repeatedly. Or, if you don't mind doing it, just cry... Crying releases a lot of emotional feelings, so it can really relieve your emotional pain. If you don't feel like doing that, then like I said before, just try to do something else. PM me if you are having any more trouble!

:hug: I know you can do it

//KiroS

[Waiting]

i could say the same as kiros
but he's said it all for me
listen to him
he knows his stuff

[xxhunnibunnixx]

ok thanks guys its has helped i will do some ova stuff life ripping paper n stuff

[///James///]

good, actually i liked to stab paper but possibly writing how you feel on it, and distroying it might work too

[Webbeardthepirate]

I have a friend who is a cutter. Or she was. She kept it hidden for a long time but now she is open, but her arms are covered with ugly scars. She swears by paxil. Maybe there is stuff in that forum about meds, but it helped her get the cutting under control. If its like OCD you can't stop by willing yourself not to do it. But when my friend kept it to herself she didn't get any better. You have got to talk to someone, I mean a real some one other then us numbskulls

[sgtpeppers]

Yea listen to James up there, he seems like he knows what hes talkin bout. I would take his advice.

[Oath]

Im a cutter also, and its been really hard for me. For me it helpd when i could talk to someone that can relate to wats happening in my life. My screen name is CU247. Aim me sometime if you ahve aim or aol and maybe we can just talk.

[HaydenJay]

hey....i know exactly wut ur going thru.

message me some time...ill help u