in-capable of loveing and letting people in

[girlygirl]

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im like not capable of evr falling in love again :(
i fell in love for the first time with my best mate ever, and we just kew that someday when we were both like 20 something we would get married (random i knw) and then when he passed away at the begining of the year, i havent really been able to let people in especially guys and its so fustrating because i want to, but for some reason theres and emotional brick wall stoping me from feeling anything and i cnt stand it, i need to feel again, and love again, but not forget my best mate and im confused how can i let people in more easily ?

x

[Gumleaf]

(this is probs in the wrong place just move it if it is :) ty )




im like not capable of evr falling in love again :(
i fell in love for the first time with my best mate ever, and we just kew that someday when we were both like 20 something we would get married (random i knw) and then when he passed away at the begining of the year, i havent really been able to let people in especially guys and its so fustrating because i want to, but for some reason theres and emotional brick wall stoping me from feeling anything and i cnt stand it, i need to feel again, and love again, but not forget my best mate and im confused how can i let people in more easily ?

x

i'm so sorry that this has happened to you and i can't begin to imagine how difficult this year would have been for you. in situations like this i think time is the best healer. this loss would have left a big hole in your heart and you need to give it time to heal. eventually after enough time has passed, and only you will know when that is, you will be able to move on and love someone else. i really do sympathise with you, this must have been a terrible experience and i feel very sorry for you.

[Trickster]

Im so very sorry. U are capable but it just hard. You love him and now he's gone. It gonna leave mark. Nearly everyone takes a while to heal. In my opinion u should take as long as u need to and dont be afraid to let people close. When you think your ready go for it. If u dont then wait. Your young so idk it could be differnt for adults. Time shall heal your wound. And remeber he is always watching over you and he wants you to be happy. =3

[girlygirl]

thnx guys for being nice .. yeah i see wht u mean i knw it takes time it just feels like its gonna take forever and i just dnt see the light at the end of the tunnel and this feeling going away and i have tried to let other guys into my life and i just end up getting more hurt.. but yeah thnx for the help :) x

[Θάνατος]

thnx guys for being nice .. yeah i see what u mean i knw it takes time it just feels like its gonna take forever and i just don't see the light at the end of the tunnel and this feeling going away and i have tried to let other guys into my life and i just end up getting more hurt.. but yeah thanks for the help :) x


Well time will heal all wounds. Instead of looking for the end of the tunnel just look a head of you a few feet. Take baby steps to finding a special person. Get to know lots of people. Find a person you can trust and talk to that person and use that person for support.

Talking to friends and hanging out with friends will help heal the wounds.

Well good luck and if you need someone to talk to I will try to help.