WTF , this dosn't make sence..?

[NeWb TeWb]

hello , thanx for reading...

Well i have just started to mature , i am almsot 14 and im like the only person in my year who's voice hasn't broke...and it probably won't break for at least another year. i have pubic hair but only 3 or 4 have browned as i call it. You may think this is really weird and i shudn't be getting into these sittuations... but i recently went on a holiday camp..and this girl there asked me for sex and i was really embarrased and didn't no what to say i said no and she was like wtf why i thought you liked me and i just said because i cant..

so , im jsut worried because i havnt gone thorugh puberty and everyone else has , and its kinda a big thing at my school . if you get into an arguement someone will jsut say shut up get some pubes..because my voice hasn't broke and its kinda embarrasing because most other lads just get there dick out in the changing rooms and im like the only person that hasnt done it . and yes why the fuck would you wanna get ya dick out buhh do you understand??

thank you Harry.

[zebrainatree]

Yeah harry, i completly understand!! But there is a simple anwser, you just a late bloomer, it happens to a lot of people, just give it time... it will happen!! :D

And to the people that mess you arounf about it, just ignore them or laugh with it, but dont let it et to you, becsue bullies feed of their victms not liking what they do!! lol so the best thing is to laugh with it!

[Requin]

Hullo! Welcome to teenagers!

Your a late bloomer, however I dislike the word, it does what it says on the tin. Everyone develops at different rates in this world. We are ALL different, nothing, or at least very little, is exactly the same. Things are similar, but very rarely are they exactly the same. Well, think about it your only 14! Your not going to sound like a 20's jazz singer yet, just give it time, yes some people will sound like that, but so what? You'll all get to the same place eventually, so why do you need to rush things now.

With the sex thing...WELL DONE! I congratulate you. Most 14 year olds would of lept at the chance to have sex. Go on living through puberty with those thoughts, people dont need to have sex at 14, I don't know why they think it's so cool. Ok, you shagged someone when you aren't fully developed yet. And you've got std's!

So basically, i'm saying don't worry about the developing thing, as it will come eventually, and boys showing each other their penis' in the changing rooms is very immature, so as long you know your more mature and better than them at heart.

Feel better? I hope that helped.

[charlie w]

mate your lucky i am in the same position as you, and i still don't have any pubes yet.

[MisterAndrews]

People at my school always show their penises(?Plural spelling?) so i guess its just a teenage 'manly' thing. Don't worry about the sex... its supposed to be special so dont rush it, save it for someone you care about! And remember that no one really knows what your penis looks like so dont let it bother you. They are just trying to be clever, they don't mean it.... how would they know?

[Maxismax123]

don't be worried.

How big is your penis?

[NeWb TeWb]

my penis is almost 4 inchs...small?

[Pompey1994]

i am also in your position as the only boy not to get his dick out.

[miromiro]

No if ur an asian, not really that small if ur a non-asian... I guess.

[Perseus]

Trust me you dont want a deep voice because when you sing a long a song you cannot hit a high note, so puberty isnt so special and having a lot pubes isnt really special either but thats my opion though some people might disagree with me. Also your penis isnt that small, yours is bigger than mine and lots of other people, but it's up to you to decide on that

[Cindex]

With the sex thing...WELL DONE! I congratulate you. Most 14 year olds would of lept at the chance to have sex. Go on living through puberty with those thoughts, people dont need to have sex at 14, I don't know why they think it's so cool. Ok, you shagged someone when you aren't fully developed yet.
Very well done!

I'm only 15. And when I was 14 I had a girlfriend who asked for it. Of course I agreed (long story, never happened thankfully). I'm proud of you for being strong :)

People at my school always show their penises(?Plural spelling?) so i guess its just a teenage 'manly' thing.
Yes, that happens here too. Usually the more "well endowed" rude kids are the ones doing it. It wouldn't be much, considering we shower in a group shower after gym and all, but they rip on people. It makes it hard for some to shower.

Trust me you dont want a deep voice because when you sing a long a song you cannot hit a high note
When it changes you'll get a sore throat singing too. It really sucks. :(


Pubes don't mean anything. I hear people say that all of the time. It's just an expression to show you're immature. Just like when guys say it's other guys' time of the month. (If you've heard that one)

Penis size? Not many people will care. Most of the time girls don't even care that much. (Yes, I went around and actually asked)

[DjDream]

Dude, I totally understand you. But you have to learn to be comfortable with yourself and learn to love who you are. Just be bold and do your thing. In the changing room just change out, don't care what people think. If anyone sees you and says anything, you just look them straight in the eye and say, What? You like it. and then if the say go get some pubes you say why don't you just go and get a girlfriend instead of sating at my dick? Dude, its ok just be cool. Girls really like bold guys. Oh and about the whole sex thing thing just do it when your ready. Good luck mate!