Dreams

[Trickster]

Ok you might remember me posting something earlier well...something new sprang up.(Im bi, have a bf)
I had a dream. and it started as me and some cute guy in my school (who many think may have some bi or gay in there) and we were walking and talking. Then he asked me a question it was "im afraid to get close to you because ur bi"
i said" im not attracted to straight guys" then he said "(sigh) " and i said " look, i dont try to get my self hurt by crushing on straight guys, so i want you to talk to me as if i were straight cuz im not gonna hit on you". Then he grabbed my chin(one of my weak points where i melt) and said " i want you" i was surprised in the dream and my eyes were out and in shock:eek: ( i was seeing third person view) then idk but we were in bed waking up. The same thing happened to the guy i have a HUGGE CRUSH ON and when he stroked my chin and messed with my hair I had a dream. about him
I love my bf and im so confused. What does this mean? Are my needs not being met by my bf? or something. Whats happenig and whats goinjg on. I beg of u to help me...:(:(

[byee]

Listen, it's just a dream. I'd say that you need to be close, the dream is about being close and being loved. You know that about yourself already, so there's not much new there.

The people in the dream can mean a lot of things, too. But, what you're experiencing in wakefulness is more relevant (and more accurate) than what or who are in the dreams. So, if you're happy in your current relationship, then the imagery in the dream, the other guy, is perhaps a personification of your feelings about HIM (your b/f) and the relationship, rather than about that (other) specific guy.

The mind can play tricks on you, even in sleep. But, you knwo yourself, and what's going on well enough to override it with some actual awareness of what's going on. It's about being loved.