Bad Boy?

[Oath]

ok. yesterday i went to a dance w. 2 of my friends, kerry n abbi, we were really bored cause there we only like 5 other kids from our school there n we just happend to not like them at all....we saw 2 guys standing against a wall they looked bored so we went ova to talk 2 them, their names are patrick n alex, they turned out 2 be bad boys.
Patrick had 115 detentions last yr. got expelled 5 times smoked n had sex wen he was 12 n hes 15 now...
Alex got arrested 4 times n had sex wen he was 12 n got expelled once..now hes 14
They were havein so trouble w. some other guys there so we helped a little...nothing big happened...
Well at the time they both have gfs. They we hot n they were nice so we got there screen names.

I went home n went online alex was online the 1st thng he said was his gf broke up w. him......i was like y n he said cause some girl gave him a lap dance at a party he went to n he tried to push her off though.......n then he said nice stuff to me..he said i was the hottest out of me n my 2 friends....n we were talkin about weather n then i said i was cold n he said hes gonna come rite ova to my house to warm me up...but then he said woops cant drive yet..but if he sould we would come ova. But then towards the end of the convorsation he started talkin about his x n how he still care bout her.....i told him 2 ask her out again he said he didnt want 2....
i dont no wat to do should i still like flirt n stuff?
do u think they are 2 much of bad boys to hang w.?
should i help him w. his x gf if yes wat should i say?
should i like him even though he still cares about his x gf?

Thanks
-Cas

[serial-thrilla]

do you want to be his girlfriend?

[Oath]

i dunno maybe...i wanna get closer to him though

[RowanVer.3.0]

Hmm.. I dunno, he sounds like bad news... Up to you though, his type usually end up in the slums on wellfair though just to warn you... And chances are he'd be pretty unstable if you started going out. Like he might have lots of bottled up hate because of parental abuse or bad things that happened to him...

But I dunno, maybe he's different. He sounds like a sleeze ball to me though.

[Oath]

hes nice though...his parents are devorced he has a 16 yr old bro....he has a pretty big family...he hs feelings..ccause he was sayin how much he loved his x...he most hold good realtion ships cause he went out w. this girl for like 6 months...n he plays football....so hes pretty normal e just gets caught for the things he does...
he doesnt really think age mattters wen ur in love n u wanna have sex....
ne other advice...n how would i tell him i like him w out hurtin his feelings w. his x

[Oath]

he also has a good sence of humor

[RowanVer.3.0]

Yeah, seriously, just sounds like he wants some poontang. But, if you want to ask him approach him like any guy and ask him out I guess.

[Elokyn]

I wouldnt do it...the guy sounds like a player...and for him to tell you about all of these things right away sounds like...he's proud of them or something.
an attraction to bad boys is fine...don't get me wrong....buuut I do agree with david...If he cared about the girls feelings and actually KNEW what love was...he wouldn't have said "wen ur in love n u wanna have sex..." That's just unbelievable I can't believe he said that. It almost sounds like he was looking for confirmation from you to see if you agreed.....

He sounds like bad news to me...but whatever you decide I wish you the best of luck!

[Oath]

hes not a player...n he didnt exactly say "do u wanna have sex" i just typed wrong...i ment he said...age shouldnt matter (w. sex) wen ur deeply n love w. someone...
hes not a player cause he only had like 3 or 4 gfs in his life....n he cheated on 2 cause she was cheating on him...
i dont really wanna ask him out cause of his x n stuff...

[EvanP]

Well, as a guy this is sorta wierd for me to be commenting on this subject. But, people lie, just remember. You can't believe everything someone tells you, especially over the net lol.

Chat lines, and msn are full of lies. Not always, and most of the time people are telling the truth. But I know some people that tell lies just to get attention, or to get well... in someone's pants.

If they had 115 detentions, i wouldn't doubt that they have a temper.

If they have had 115 detentions, and smoke, and have had sex... i wouldn't doubt that they do drugs too.

I'm around this stuff all the time.

Really its up to you if you want to date them. There are probably some risks involving dating this guy. I suggest you get to know him a bit better, hang out with him a bit more, see what he's really like.

[Oath]

i didnt meet im over the net...

[*BrokenInside*]

I would say that if you like him after you get to know him a little better go for it but watch out becasue you know the saying once a cheater always a cheater.. Dont keep focussing on what has happened to his life in the past look towards the furture. Tell him how you feel though i think you will feel better once you do.. Good luck


*BrokenInsdie*

[r0x0row3nd]

u should get to know them better and if there too much to handle dont go out with them simple and dont go along with somthin they do thats illegal unless its really fun lol no dont im kiddin i would though

[WelshLad]

hmm nah he sounds like this guy i know (no names mentioned). he does sound like a player and might try to seem romantic or whatever but he's just in it for the pussy. im not sayin theres no way he could like you as a person or anythin coz u seem pretty cool but he sounds like one of those guys

[There_Goes_My_Life]

too much of a bad boy... it's disturbing... but hey... To each his own... but yeah... if you like him or whatever than do what makes HIM happy

[WelshLad]

too much of a bad boy... it's disturbing... but hey... To each his own... but yeah... if you like him or whatever than do what makes HIM happy

it may be what makes him happy but would she be happy doing it?