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dddo0
October 28th, 2008, 08:29 AM
1: when i cum it just goes out,dozent Squirt as they sayy.... is it normal?
how do i stop an ection near girls,
and how SHould ppl masturbate because i dunt know , i just do watever fells good PLZ help :whoops::whoops::whoops::whoops:

Requin
October 28th, 2008, 10:35 AM
1) When you first start to ejaculate, or cum. Your cum may not 'squirt' at all, it'll just dribble out, this is what people mean when they ask you, 'Do you dribble or shoot?'
This is perfectly normal and you shouldn't worry as eventually, you will be able to 'shoot' your cum. It's all about how far developed you are and when your body decide's that your ready for sex. THis doesn't mean go and have it by the way......

2) Stopping erections near girls is a very hard thing. (no pun intended), as it is also a very common worry for boys during puberty. Getting erections around girls can be stopped, by you doing some very simple things, first, sit down if you can and think about something else, or think of nothing if that helps. I've found that if you think of something that would turn you off, it doesn't work as you are still thinking about bodies..most likely anyway :-)

3) There is a way that is considered, the normal way of how to masturbate and the best place to go for that is www.jackinworld.com
But as long as your not doing anything that would hurt your penis in any way, as in friction. Then it really doesn't matter.

Neverender
October 28th, 2008, 05:59 PM
1: when i cum it just goes out,dozent Squirt as they sayy.... is it normal?
how do i stop an ection near girls,
and how SHould ppl masturbate because i dunt know , i just do watever fells good PLZ help :whoops::whoops::whoops::whoops:

1. yes. you can dribble or shoot your cum depending on how aroused you are or how developed you are in puberty/how much semen you make.

2. well, its hormones causing these erections. any sexual thought, a light brush against your penis, or for no reason at all, you can get a boner. these will settle down later on in puberty, and i try to get rid of my boners by thinking of renee zellweger(it really works)

3. well, as long as it does not cause any bodily harm or pain, it is probably safe. i suggest the hand on penis method (standard masturbation) here is a link for ways to jack off http://www.jackinworld.com/

george
October 28th, 2008, 07:31 PM
1: when i cum it just goes out,dozent Squirt as they sayy.... is it normal?
how do i stop an ection near girls,
and how SHould ppl masturbate because i dunt know , i just do watever fells good PLZ help :whoops::whoops::whoops::whoops:

1. Well, generally the 2 things that determine whether or not you actually "shoot" or whether it just dribbles out is,
-How far you are in puberty
-How aroused you are while masturbating or if your doing it, while having sex.

How far you are in puberty helps out because maybe your body hasn't matured enough to produce sperm or hasn't produced enough for a lot of it to come out.

How aroused you will help out because your more likely to shoot if you're say, watching porn rather than just masturbating really quick with no stimulus like doing a "quickie". Though that might not be how it ALWAYS is, that's the general rule.

2. I would just concentrate on something that isn't arousing to you, maybe a wall by the girl your talking to?

3. Well generally as long as whatever you doing isn't harming you in anyway, and you don't think it will harm you, then your okay. Because we can't discuss masturbation techniques on here in detail, I suggest you go to www.jackinworld.com and see the techniques they have there but because they don't really have the "basic" technique, I'll just say you should do the "up and down" with your hand technique.

Hopefully that's okay on VT :)