View Full Version : crush on best friend :/
ArtistInNeed
October 27th, 2008, 07:02 PM
so i have this really big crush on my best friend. and its not like i want to date her, i just really wanna kiss her and have sex with her. im terrified to tell her, but i think she has a right to kno how im feeling. i sometimes wonder if she feels the same towards me because shes an artist and she draws Furries (animal people) and she draws us having sex sometimes. it feels like shes trying to tell me something but then again i have no idea whats going through her head. what should i do?
byee
October 27th, 2008, 08:41 PM
Oh, you should ask yourself what's to be gained by disclosing this to your friend!
The issue with these types of things, these fantasies, is the value in making them public, of sharing them. What do you hope to gain? Why is that important for you, and perhaps most importantly, how will it affect the relationship
Having a thught or feeling or fantasy isn't always a good reason for sharing it. You have to think it thru and consider the potential consequences and see if its really worth it.
PLEASEDELETE
October 27th, 2008, 09:36 PM
ok...
ArtistInNeed
October 28th, 2008, 04:05 PM
The issue with these types of things, these fantasies, is the value in making them public, of sharing them. What do you hope to gain? Why is that important for you, and perhaps most importantly, how will it affect the relationship
i hope to gain a one night stand with her lol, or atleast a kiss. its important to me because im in a relationship with a boy and im craving sex with a woman.
ok...
what the fuck is that supposed to mean?
byee
October 28th, 2008, 04:09 PM
well, the problem with what you want is that b/c it involves another person, you should really take into consideration their feelings and needs and expectations. So, unless she's into a one nighter, too, it's really selfish of you to make a move here just to satisfy your curiosity or needs.
Halibut
October 30th, 2008, 04:12 PM
umm you shouldnt just want to have sex and kiss her..you should want to have a relationship with her..and think about sex later
Look whos here!
November 2nd, 2008, 09:57 PM
She probably does is she draws Furries of you guys fucking...
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