my best friend

[swaggerlikeme]

Alright so i already no im bi, and i really like my best friend. Someetimes i have fantasies when im around him do you think it would be weird or ruin our relationship if i ask him to see his "wang"

[Requin]

Yes, it may do. The fact that i'm guessing that he's not gay or bi means that he may not do it. Teenagers wanting to experiment is a very normal feeling and is a stage that almost everyone goes through. However, if the friend that you want to do this with is uncomfortable or doesn't want to do it. STOP! Don't pressurise him into doing anything with you as it will ruin your friendship with him or at least make it very difficult and uncomfortable to be around him.

I personally would advise against this, as it would most likely end up freaking your friend out a bit. But then again I don't know him, make sure you get an idea of what he's like around things like this. Then you can decide, i wouldn't do it, but at the end of the day, it's your life and your choices. If you want to do it, go ahead, but i expect most people will tell you the same as me.

[pontiacdriver]

Alright so i already no im bi, and i really like my best friend. Someetimes i have fantasies when im around him do you think it would be weird or ruin our relationship if i ask him to see his "wang"

Firstly, with the amount of hormones working through you system it is understandable that you would be curious and are wondering how other guys are developing in relation to you. A big part of puberty is that people want to know that they are normal, and comparing oneself to one's friends is the natural reaction as you come into contact with such people all of the time and they are your same age. However, it is a really bad idea to ask to see your friend naked, especially if you have never been naked with one another before. I reckon it would be all right to talk with him about puberty, but even then you have to be really careful as you don't want to creep him out if he has never talked about such things with you before.

Basically, the best thing to do is if you want your friendship to stay as it is, then introducing sexual things (even just seeing each other naked) might change things for the worse. However, if you just want reassurance about your development, then you can ask him about his development only if he feels comfortable. My suggestion is that if you are simply looking for reassurance that you are normal, then talk with your Father, older brother, or older male cousin to get their perspective on things. I suppose you can even talk with a female relative, too, as it never hurts to get a women's view on things.

You might want to check out the following thread as it is similar to this one: http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=31986

[waterplayer]

Stuff like that can ruin a realstionship with a freind

[Neverender]

Alright so i already no im bi, and i really like my best friend. Someetimes i have fantasies when im around him do you think it would be weird or ruin our relationship if i ask him to see his "wang"

yeah. i do believe it is very possible. it will probably create awkward moments between you both, and will likely even separate your friendship. but it depends on his attitude towards those things, if he's like "gross!" because you say somthing like "i have a boner and it hurts to walk because the skin is pulled back on my dick and its rubbing up against my boxers." then don't even bother asking.

[bushyboy]

yeah. but i guess you could just ask if he wanted to watch some porn, and then yall would just jack off and look out of the corner of your eye, lol...

[byee]

The real issue here is why you want to see his wang in the first place. You think it looks that different?

A lot of guys are curious, and the urge is pretty strong. But the antidite to urge is thought. Think about your desire here, why it's important to you, and how it will change things. And if you really need it.

[Jordan 2kaii8 Homo]

I Am the Same. So one day i just said to him "Im Serious so dont laugh, But can i see your penis" he looked at me Closed his eyes and wipped it out, i usually ask dis question and always get a good answer :D i am happy bcuz he asked me did i want to touch it :D

[Stark]

That may ruin the relationship.

[Oblivion]

Please, do not bump old threads. :locked: