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pubertypimp
October 26th, 2008, 06:38 AM
i'm 15 (16 in a few months) and although from getting in with a couple girls, and 1 or 2 short period girlfreinds over the years, i've never really had much experience 'down there' like a fair few of my freinds have had, the reason being i'm quite a late bloomer i've not tried to put myself out there, whereas most of my freinds started in year 7/8 (grade 6/7) i didn't start until late year 9, (my penis is average, i have some slight hair on my anus, going up my gooch, some armpit hair, a small snail trail, which doesn't connect to my pubes, as they are only halfway up, and are only just starting to spread along my legs, and i have no scrotum hair or facial, although i'm not in a rush to grow up, i am in need of a girfreind and am not frigid to do things, although i just wanna be confident that if something was to happen, would girls laugh or be put off by it as i am not developed as most of my freinds?

theOperaGhost
October 26th, 2008, 11:52 AM
Well, I'm not a girl, but I highly doubt it. You don't sound too underdeveloped to me though. You say your penis is average and you have some hair. Some people don't even get that much hair, so I think you are fine and a girl shouldn't care.

DarkWingedAngel
October 26th, 2008, 11:58 AM
All i have to say is it depends on the girl. Me im ok with that, but some other girls might not be.
It just depends on what the girl likes and if the girl is stuck up or not.

BeautifulSilence
October 26th, 2008, 12:04 PM
First, I just wanna say that you shouldn't feel that you need a girlfriend and I think that your decision to not put yourself out there should be respected :cool:

I don't think there's anything laughable about your development, I don't think you're that far behind either. Sounds like you're growing up just fine :)

So, if anything were to happen, you should feel confident about your body. Plus, if you're really nervous, that could get in the way of things... Just take things slowly, when you get into a steady relationship.