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damonshouse
October 26th, 2008, 04:53 AM
I am 13. I get hardons and stuff but I have never figured out how to cum.
Anyone else have the same problem.

Donkey
October 26th, 2008, 05:25 AM
I'm the same, I'm pretty sure we just have to wait until that special day :P

Keep on masturbating while horny and it should cum :)

Gavin
October 26th, 2008, 05:35 AM
I am 13. I get hardons and stuff but I have never figured out how to cum.
Anyone else have the same problem.

Your probably not developed just yet to cum, but i'll come in the end so wait on.

damonshouse
October 26th, 2008, 09:22 AM
I do try really hard, but I just cannot cum or orgasm. I feel so full.

Neverender
October 26th, 2008, 04:26 PM
I am 13. I get hardons and stuff but I have never figured out how to cum.
Anyone else have the same problem.

well do you masturbate? but first, lets go to the very basic, has your body even began to make semen and sperm? once your body has matured enough to make sperm, you can cum. Also, you cum by having an orgasm (masturbation/sex/etc.)\

I'm the same, I'm pretty sure we just have to wait until that special day :P

Keep on masturbating while horny and it should cum :)

no, you can only cum if your body makes cum in the first place. no matter how horny you are and how long you masturbate, it won't help.

I do try really hard, but I just cannot cum or orgasm. I feel so full.

what do you mean you can't orgasm? do you masturbate long enough to do so? its not like you can jack off for 15 seconds and expect to have an orgasm, you have to jack off for 2-5 minutes usually

Donkey
October 26th, 2008, 04:50 PM
no, you can only cum if your body makes cum in the first place. no matter how horny you are and how long you masturbate, it won't help.
That's why I said you have to wait til that "special day". :rolleyes:

wavey
October 26th, 2008, 05:25 PM
Try slow, when your alone and have a hard one, or if you want to force a hard on, just run the tip of your penis with index n thumb in a circular motion.. find the spot where it feels good and itll become hard.

Then Curl your pinky finger then place the penis between your palm and the inside of the curled pinkie.

then go up and down as fast as you want. with just enough grip, try not to slip, it hurts ;)

You'll get a good feeling if you arch your back or get into a good posistion, i recomend lieing down :)

soon you'll havea good posistion and feel something :)

just keep going. if after 20mins and you've had a BRILLIANt feeling, sorry, its just not your time.

pistonfan28
October 26th, 2008, 07:08 PM
you will just have to wait to cum

damonshouse
October 27th, 2008, 07:28 AM
I have tried, I can get a hardon fine, I can jerk for over an hour and it feels really good, I just dont know how to make the sperm come out. Do you have to do something with your balls?

pontiacdriver
October 27th, 2008, 11:06 AM
I have tried, I can get a hardon fine, I can jerk for over an hour and it feels really good, I just dont know how to make the sperm come out. Do you have to do something with your balls?

You cannot make something come out that does not exist. The fact remains that you just do not have the ability to ejaculate at this point, and many 13 year olds out there are just like you. Keep in mind that there are folks who are as old as 16/17 who don't experience their first ejaculation even though they may develop everywhere else. While your method of masturbating can affect the kind of orgasm you have, simply masturbating endlessly will not make your body produce semen. There are a lot of things within your urinary system that are needed to become developed to start producing semen such as your prostate, cowper's glands, etc.

Long story short, none of us can tell you exactly when you will ejaculate, but the fact that you are getting an orgasm means that you are getting most of the experience of masturbating anyway. Dry orgasms have distinct advantages, and you can have multiple orgasms in a row without worry about clean up unlike folks who have wet orgasms. You are perfectly normal, and just be patient as you will be able to ejaculate sooner rather than later.

Neverender
October 27th, 2008, 04:45 PM
I have tried, I can get a hardon fine, I can jerk for over an hour and it feels really good, I just dont know how to make the sperm come out. Do you have to do something with your balls?

no, have you even read the advise we've given you?

Your probably not developed just yet to cum, but i'll come in the end so wait on.




I am 13. I get hardons and stuff but I have never figured out how to cum.
Anyone else have the same problem.

well do you masturbate? but first, lets go to the very basic, has your body even began to make semen and sperm? once your body has matured enough to make sperm, you can cum. Also, you cum by having an orgasm (masturbation/sex/etc.)

I'm the same, I'm pretty sure we just have to wait until that special day :P

Keep on masturbating while horny and it should cum :)

no, you can only cum if your body makes cum in the first place. no matter how horny you are and how long you masturbate, it won't help.

I do try really hard, but I just cannot cum or orgasm. I feel so full.

what do you mean you can't orgasm? do you masturbate long enough to do so? its not like you can jack off for 15 seconds and expect to have an orgasm, you have to jack off for 2-5 minutes usually

bushyboy
October 27th, 2008, 09:05 PM
Just wait as everyone else said.
i was freaked out when i first cummed, but my friend told me it was normally and he did it too.. then i was all excited i could ejaculate.. its cool, but can be annoying to clean up.

LiGHT
October 28th, 2008, 05:12 PM
Like.everyone.is.saying.just.wait.it,.will.come.
or.maybe.your.,not.trying.hard.enough.

eltacosbello
October 28th, 2008, 09:35 PM
after you begin to knowingly masturbate for good amounts of time it'll be about a month until you cum:)

Pricey
October 30th, 2008, 11:47 PM
Hey I'm 13 and I started to cum like a month ago when my voice deepened and i started gaining muscle so maybe your just really slow in puburty.

Antares
October 31st, 2008, 04:39 PM
To cum,
Masturbate with stimulants and lubrication. Keep going and find something that stimulates you physically also. If you orgasm but don't cum then you physically can not cum.