First time dating a guy

[DoYouLikeCookies]

This is my first time dating a guy.
He is really sweet and I really like him.
But I get really nervous around him and tend to avoid him:whoops:
I want to talk to him but some how convince myself to do it later and before you know it the day is over. . . bummer =.=
I want to stop being so nervous and anxious around him.
And I wanna try and break the touch barrier. . .:yes::yes: you heard me correctly and maybe even kiss him.:D
( But we do talk. . .on da phone online etc and when we do talk face to face I'm secretly melting inside:wub: ).
Can you try and help meh out best you can and tell me about your first time kissing or dating.

ANYTHING HELPS :)

[BeautifulSilence]

Girls Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Trickster]

Practice!! When u see him im school smile and say hi. Only u can really do it. Being shy is cute but u need to just go and say something. "Hi, what u been up 2?". "How u been" anything. If he likes u to go out it mean he likes u. Truthfully saying something stupid is cute for alot of guys, so just go out and say a word. He wants to hear you, dont deprive him of that. You owe him that much

[Gumleaf]

maybe just try and forget that you are dating and try and treat him at first like any other guy friend. if you treat the situation like that, you will gradually become more and more comfortable together. i remember when i had my first gf, i was really nervous around her. but when i just kind of put the gf thing out of my mind and treated her like another girl friend then it became more comfortable. as for the touching/kissing barrier. all i can say from my experience is that the first kiss is usually unexpected and just happens, usually when you least expect it to. but for now i think you should just concentrate on being comfortable around him with just talking and stuff before you move onto anything more physical.

[byee]

Well, what are you afraid of here?

I think you need to acknowledge the anxiety, but push thru it. That means calling/IMing/texting/talking to him eventhough you might feel anxious. the best antidote for anxiety here is reality. Just do it, and when you see nothing but good stuff happens, the anxiety will go away. Or, if you continue to respond to your anxiety by backing away from him, he will go away.

[DoYouLikeCookies]

Wow i never thought of it like tht. Thanks =D

[Pricey]

Hey, take this guys love it when walking down the halls you come up and hug them or just hold their hand. Trust me my GF always wants to try and surprize me with a hug or she'll come up and lay her head on my shoulder and ask how my night was. Always pick up if he calls unless u cant cause thats the biggest heart breaker is all i want to do is hear her voice and she doesnt pick up.

[Mr. Smithers]

Just do things your own way. You shouldn't be too uncomfortable if you truly have feelings for him. You don't have to rush things. If you really have a good connection with this person then you should be able to go to the next level. If not, then you might not be ready. But I can't speak for you. Its up to you whether or not you want to make these choices to this person. Whether or not you are just too shy or something different. But I know that soon enough, and I know that this might be very soon, that you would be able to get to a good point with this person to kiss and hug and all that other stuff.

[mjsmalls]

Talk to him and tell him how you feel!

[BreOnnaLeigh]

when you talk to him, pretend that hes just another one of your friends and when things get physical like kissing just close your eyes and dont think about it, just kiss

[Gumleaf]

when you talk to him, pretend that hes just another one of your friends and when things get physical like kissing just close your eyes and dont think about it, just kiss

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