Out of sync...

[Trickster]

Me and my bf(im bi) got back 2gether after a dispute of him becoming an ass. So he stopped being so mean now and wants me back. So i said yes. We are kinda outta sync how we used to. We would stay up for hours talking, asking questions, doing nothing. Now it kinda dead...How can we back in sync like we used.

[Avalikia]

The problem is you don't trust eachother as much as you used to, so naturally things are going to be strained. It takes more time to rebuild trust after it's been lost than it does to build it in the first place. So this should get better with time; talking about it can help speed up the process.

[byee]

It might be trust. But it might just be over.

Nothing's forever at this age, and sometimes when we 'outgrow' someone else, it's just time to move on. Even if there's some dispute that's been resolved, the point is that it just might feel differently because either/both of you have grown and it just doesn't work anymore.

What to do? Give it a little time, and if it doean't feel right/good, it's a pretty clear indication that it's just over. Life typically moves in a forward direction, anyway.