What if?

[joe6pac]

girls occasionaly flirt with me. though i realy want to have sex, im not very comfortable with my "size". what do u think would happen if i just "went for it"

[Rutherford The Brave]

Um bad things, I mean really bad things could happen. Don't just go for it, then your abusing sex, and believe me sex is the last thing you want to abuse.

[theOperaGhost]

You don't just go for sex...that's just bad...

Sex should not be the focus of a relationship, and I don't feel there should be sex outside of relationships.

Basically what you just said is the reason most girls hate guys...all they care about it sex...That is not the way it should be and I do NOT think you should just go out and have random sex with any girl who flirts with you.

[Neverender]

well just going for sex isn't a very smart idea, i would just stick to masturbation for now, until you are ready for sex. and how big is your penis anyways?

[byee]

Hey, I got a hot tip for ya! The girls who flirt with you in all probability aren't looking for sex. If you 'Went for it', you would probably be misreading their signals and looking like a jack ass.

People flirt for a lot of reasons, usually to get attention and to display interest in the other person. And although I suppose some girls flirt just for sex, I suspect you're pretty young (them too), so we can probably eliminate that as a motivation for them. However, they do seem to be signalling their willingness to be with you, and you might try making friends with them and hanging out with them. Not only might you have fun (girls are good at that!), but being friends with them might also give you some valuable experience so you can better learn to read the many siganls they often send.