it's hard to explain...

[scottieboi]

it's hard to explain. i think i am attracted to both sexes.

If it's a guy, it's more of physical attraction. i get active when i see a good-looking guy. if i am in the men's room and other guys are in the urinals or are changing, i tend to hav the urge to peek out of curiosity

if it's a girl, it's more emotional. it's like having a crush and i get warm feeling inside and i think about her very often.

i do not want to be gay or bi, i find it a bit wierd, (according to me) and others might not be welcoming to it. i want to be straight.

is there a cure for this?

[Donkey]

There's no cure, but to be gay you have to be physically and emotionally attracted to a gender. Same with bisexuality.

You'll become more sure of your sexuality, and you'll understand more about your sexuality when you fully mature from puberty (early twenties).

[confusedboy]

It's just hormones bud,

I was the same way & I still am (I'm 14). But now I'm staying away from guys. I guess that my time's up. :D

Don't worry! Your just curious.

[MisterAndrews]

dont worry about anything! its probably just hormones. dont make any decisions until you are well clear of puberty... homosexuality is something you are born with so there is no cure but this means that the likelyhood is if you dont feel like you are gay in your head and your heart then you probably arent.

[Neverender]

it's hard to explain. i think i am attracted to both sexes.

If it's a guy, it's more of physical attraction. i get active when i see a good-looking guy. if i am in the men's room and other guys are in the urinals or are changing, i tend to hav the urge to peek out of curiosity

if it's a girl, it's more emotional. it's like having a crush and i get warm feeling inside and i think about her very often.

i do not want to be gay or bi, i find it a bit wierd, (according to me) and others might not be welcoming to it. i want to be straight.

is there a cure for this?

is there a cure for being gay? no.

and are you attracted to girls physically as well? if you are, then you are Straight, but curious. It is caused by hormones and isn't to common in 17 year olds but once your hormones die down a bit then you'll no longer be physically attracted to males

see This Thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=18215) By Val for more info.

also, shouldn't this be in the teen sexuality forum?

[addikt7]

dude, same with me. its not alot, and im sure it'll go away after we get older.

[joe6pac]

it's actualy perfectly normal to be gay or straight. it just depends on what direction you want to go. I fell you pain though. im striahgt but i was once bi-curious. But really every man has there moments where they sort of "get pulled to the other side". And if they say they don't they're lying.

Just follow your heart.

[MisterAndrews]

Yea your mind is so complex that i think its impossible not to ever think you might be attracted to either sex... especially in puberty cos its just messed up!

[kyle029]

this has to do with sexuality not puberty. why do people post this crap on here? its a PUBERTY forum.

[Sumitup]

Your hormones are just going nuts... eventually things will even out for you.

[MisterAndrews]

this has to do with sexuality not puberty. why do people post this crap on here? its a PUBERTY forum.

It has to do with both because the answer probably has something to do with puberty...

[scottieboi]

this has to do with sexuality not puberty. why do people post this crap on here? its a PUBERTY forum.

sori bout that... i'm still new to the site....

[scottieboi]

There's no cure, but to be gay you have to be physically and emotionally attracted to a gender. Same with bisexuality.

You'll become more sure of your sexuality, and you'll understand more about your sexuality when you fully mature from puberty (early twenties).

so wut should i do to develop physical attraction towards females?