How Should I Tell Him?

[Stark]

I have a good friend, he's 14 and I'm 15... and he asks me to sleep over at his place, I agree to, I've slept over at his house half a dozen times, and the only bed he's got besides his parents bed, is a shitty double bunk, I sleep on the bottom bunk and he sleeps on the top, and I hear him masturbating, softly moaning, and he doesn't think I can hear him, and I've even seen cum fly off the side of the bed, and the whole thing creeps me out, and I would like him not to do it when I'm there, but I don't know how to ask him to stop without embarrassing him, so how should I ask him? If embarrassing is the only way, then I guess that's what I'll have to do.:(

[iceyfresh]

you will have to tell him youv noticed and to stop

[george]

You could maybe bring up the topic of like sex and masturbating when your sleeping over and be like "yeah I hear you jacking off at night" and you could just try asking him to not do it when your there then so that its not out of the blue.

It'd be kind of awkward just saying, "Could you stop jacking off when I'm sleeping over at your house?" But if that's what you want to do, you can.

[Donkey]

He may feel embaressed if you say it like that. Well, he will anyway. Maybe the next time he does it just say 'I can hear you masturbating'.

[Θάνατος]

You could maybe bring up the topic of like sex and masturbating when your sleeping over and be like "yeah I hear you jacking off at night" and you could just try asking him to not do it when your there then so that its not out of the blue.

It'd be kind of awkward just saying, "Could you stop jacking off when I'm sleeping over at your house?" But if that's what you want to do, you can.


I agree with George here there is nothing you can do except tell him.

Like George said though do it while talking about sex and stuff.

[JoshDude]

Next time you stay at his house, and hear him, just do a loud cough. Then, if he stops, he should now know that you know when he is masturbating. Other than this, you could just come out and say you know he is doing it, and ask if he would kindly stop.

[byee]

"I'm not sure what that moaning sound is when i sleep over, but it's really distracting and i'm a very light sleeper"

[MisterAndrews]

I agree with donkey. The easiest way is to tell him you can hear him. Perhaps say it in a joking voice at first so he doesnt know for sure that youre on to him.

[Requin]

As long as you tell him in the right area of conversation. It should not be a problem to tell him. Your mates after all right? Your used to talking about sex etc...
Just tell him in the way that you think he'll react better towards. You know him better than we do after all.

[kag9901900]

pull rank (age) on him

[The Batman]

Just try and let him know your awake next time you sleep over that way he'll stop until you fall asleep.

[Neverender]

well the next time he does it, you could ask what ae you doing or say stop jacking off. i don't think you should ask him to not do it again at another time as it will likely create an instant awkward moment between you both

[marktheman]

You could ask him if you could sleep in the top bunk so you won't get hit with the flying cum. (or maybe not).

[teenboy93]

i agree just talk to him