need a womans view

[cj4976]

im trying to see into the mind of my girlfriend better. and figure things out i over analyze wayyyy to much. it drives me nuts. anyway, what is it meaning when my girlfriend seemingly forgets, or doesnt plan things out in a right way, that she can see me. for example, supposed to see her. make plans ahead of time, blows off plans to do homework (were in college) which is fine. then says, im going home now for the day so i cant anyway. so it seems like she just ditched the plans we had to go home and most likely see other people at home. I know she cares about me, we arent fighting, and she isnt mad at me. i jsut cant understand why she does things like that and it is really a pet peeve

[JoshDude]

Well, its a possibility that she just needs to do more work, and she doesnt mean to blow you off, but she has other responsibilities.
If she is ditching you for her other friends, you need to sit down with her and ask her why she is doing it. You need to work out the problem together.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

dont over analyze everything she does, trust me girls are confusing and we do things because we feel like it, we dont need a logical reason. my ex boyfriend did that, always asked me why i dotn make time for him, or make plans to do hmwk instead of seeing him and then dont do my hmwk, this lead to our breakup.