Theres this girl . . .

[Attax]

Ok, well I know that there are like 29030iu235oiu2o3iu5 forums about this stuff, but just needed to talk about it.

I am 16 and this girl is 14, but will be 15 November 9, and we have recently started talking as friends, but I am starting to like her more and more. She is the only thing making me want to get away from my ex and stop trying to get her back . . . I want to ask her out but

a) she is WAY out of my league
b) idk if she likes me
c) I'm scared, as usual
d) idk if 2 grades is too much of a difference for me or not
e) i don't wanna lose someone who is becoming a good friend

[DarkWingedAngel]

well you have to find out if she likes you first

[Random_oso06]

ask he in a conversation and slip it up or wait and talk to her i would ask her before someone else asks her so try the safe approach

[Donkey]

Lean in for a kiss type thing? I don't think she'd mind, because as she sounds like a nice person she'll base her relationships on personality. As she likes you, that should be fine. I don't think she sounds like the kind of person who only dates people who are in her "league".

She may not love you, though, and there's nothing you can do about that. I say go for it.

[JoshDude]

Just ask her out. If she says yes, great. If she says no, you can still be friends.

[Attax]

its a bit more complex than that . . . I am not the type of guy to just ask a girl out randomly . . . I am too shy

[khaos14]

I feel for you. I'm just like that. I can't ask a girl out without preparing exactly how I'm going to do it for at least a couple days beforehand. :(

[Attax]

ha, takes me weeks or months . . . and it never works out as planned

[byee]

I think you might be scared off by the 'ask her out' approach. I don't blame you, btw. That's pretty forward, esp. since you guys really don't have a relationship yet.

So, start off with something easier. just start talking with her and hnging around her more. Hide your shyness, just smile a lot, make good eye contact, ask her a lot of questions (Hint: When in doubt, let them do the talking!). Take it slow, build up to it, see of you can go on a walk with her, maybe stop for ice cream, etc. When the time is right, the words will come out real easy. Until then, just go slow.