My girlfriend

[RachelTyraAlton]

So this girl and i are going out, and we like each other, but we have not kissed yet. She is really experienced, but i have never had a girlfriend before. What should i do? i want to kiss her, but i am afraid that if i do, she will break up with me or laugh, or do something because of my inexperience ..... how do i kiss someone passionately? i just dont know what to do... PLEASE HELP

[BeautifulSilence]

General Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Requin]

Well i'm the worst person to give kissing advice as i have never had a girlfriend either. :-(
Too ugly....
Anyway, honestly, the best thing you can do is just go for it. I'm not sure if asking her to kiss is the best thing or to just do it without warning, she'll most probably be impressed with the move. I hope anyway. But as i said, i'm not an expert at these things. :-(

[Trickster]

Ok this is kinda my favorite thing to talk about =) so i know what to do. What you need to do is have a semi-private place. Like a park bench basically someplace comfortable. Start a fun conversation. Laughing and smiles. Now you have options though. The dircet one, the interrupter, the romantic one, the spontanoes, the apporch or the shy one.

The direct: You look in her eyes and you kiss.
The interrupter: Youre talking and your laughing and then you kiss her while she talking.(In my opinion i love this one)
The romantic one: you take her hand, say i love or like you(depends on how far you are) then kiss her
The spontanoes: You like do something dumb like trip or fall and then kiss her then. (WARNING: you may bump your head. Its like some girls like a clumsy fool)
The apporch: You go slowly in stop make a joke then do it for real
The shy one: You ask her if you can kiss her.

Theres more ways. Since she is experienced and you like her im betting she wont care, she will probably just laugh for you being goofy.

[Attax]

Just go for it, and like it has been said if she does dump you just because of a kiss then she obviously does not like you. I know that when I first kiseed my ex she laughed, but it was kinda funny really, not embarassing. She admitted to me once that I wasn't an amazing kisser but I had been improving.

Her friend told me that you can practice on your pillow or back of your hand if you want to before you do the real thing.

[JoshDude]

As said above... go for it. Everything should be fine.

[Avalikia]

I'm a big fan of the 90/10 rule. You lean in 90% of the way and let her lean in 10%. Of course, if she doesn't want to kiss you that leaves you hanging, but that's far less awkward than if you kiss her and she didn't want to. (I've been stealth-kissed when I didn't want to kiss before; it's not a very pleasant experience at all.)

As for experience, most girls are very understanding if you're inexperienced in these matters and will cut you some slack; if she's worth dating she'll be one of them. If you haven't said anything about it before, just casually say something about how you haven't really had a girlfriend before when you're talking sometime and she'll know what to expect if you decide to kiss her. In fact, if she's as experienced as you say she is she'll probably be able to teach you a lot.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

. In fact, if she's as experienced as you say she is she'll probably be able to teach you a lot.

And learning new things, especially things like THAT, is SO MUCH FUN! :D

Come on, of all the things to teach; if only someone would want to teach ME! :rolleyes:

She should understand as long as you're honest and open with her; don't act like you do know everything (cuz then when you suck it will just seem even worse).

[TurboDieselBandit]

Ask her in a soft voice, after you have had a little random talk, if she has ever considered kissing and if she would like to some time. Don't insist on doing it right there unless she wants to. If she dumps you don't sweat it because she was probably not the one for you any way; life for you wont end if she breaks up with you besides having a girlfriend is not the best thing in life. And ALWAYS REMEMBER you have your whole life ahead of you, so if for some crazy resion you and her stop going out, don't worry cuz being single for a little while is gerat! Just don't rush it.
It may not come when ya want it, but it'll be there right on time.

[eskimogal700]

just go for it. she probobaly would rather get kissed badly than not get kissed at all. i know i would

[faMoUs]

It may sound old fashion, but just watch a movie together and hold hands or put your arm around her. And then start by kissing her on her cheek and then she'll let you know if you can go on!

[bluestar201270]

Go for it.