Experiment

[Brazdar]

My best friend came up with an idea, to gather very close friends to someone's house when the parents are not at home and experiment(kissing and maybe other stuff, but nothing involving sexual contact ), she made a list and and started asking some of those our common close friends. We've made a principal rule, what happens, there stays there and we're not aloud to talk about this with anyone, and during this "party" we can always refuse anyone.
Then one of the girls came up with another idea, not only to experiment with the opposite sex but with the same sex too.
We haven't decided when or where to gather, but I'm not sure about it, have anyone done something like this before? if not, what do you think about this?

[DarkWingedAngel]

it is completely normal for teens to experiment with each other
just don't let it get out of hand

[Atonement]

I dont suggest organizing a kind of "sex" party. If you decide to experiment, I suggest you do it alone with one other friend and don't plan it. It can just get out of hand and get you in all kinds of trouble.

[Requin]

It's normal for teenagers to experiment yes. But i think this is taking things a little to far. The fact that your all friends is a bad idea to start with, this could possibly and i couldn't see how it would not, ruin your friendship with each other. You may also get found out and what then? That's a bad idea. No really this is taking experimenting way to far. Sorry but the best advice that i can give is to not do it. And try and persuade them not to either.
But at the end of the day, it's your choice and it's your life. If you want to be uncomfortable around your friends for the rest of your school life then fine...but it's up to you.

If you really want to experiment with someone, then do it with a very close friend that wants to do it as much as you and do it together. Not in one giant hormonic teen sex party. And yes i know your not planning on having sex, but with horny teenagers everywhere, you just never know. Don't do it, it'll be the worst mistake you could make to be honest.

[george]

Yeah, like people above have said, you shouldn't really be organizing a "party" just for experimenting with your friends. It can be a very dangerous thing, just imagine if you guys get caught by someones parent that maybe had come home early or something, you would be in so much trouble and then everyone else would be dragged into it.

You can never be to sure what a room of horny teens will do when no ones home, you can only limit to just kissing even if people can refuse.

If your doing this because its fun or because you want to experiment with someone, then it should be someone close like JUST your best friend and not a group of friends. Its safer and "better" that way, what would happen if someone actually said something to someone about it. The person that they told could maybe want to join or tell one of your parents about it, its just a very dangerous thing your doing.

[Donkey]

Okay. I personally don't like the idea of organising sex with friends. It's likely something will go wrong, and you'll all get overly horny and do something you'll regret later. Then this'll ruin your relationship with your friends and everything will fuck up. Whereas, if you do it with one very close friend only they are there to see it and it is more private. This means that you can have fun without loads of people discussing it, and maybe not accidentally leaking it. Infact, this is very likely. I suggest maybe you should tell you friends this and see what they think, if they disagree you can just not go. This means any feuds will be kept away from you. Or, if they agree it won't happen. If you disagree with what I'm saying, and you go to it just be careful! Things like these end up in tears, let me assure you. It only takes one person to do something wrong and you're all naked on the sofa.

[Random_oso06]

i agree with them this speaks disaster writen all over it you will regret it the relationship with your friends will be different and next time it will be acward you see them

[Justwondering]

As good as you may think this sounds, This is a horrible idea. Sure your 15 and want to experiment but there are better ways of doing so. You are risking your relationships with all of your close friends. If you are set on this then get one close friend (Male or Female) and set something up there, Therefore your not risking your relationship with all of your friends compared to one. There is still a great chance of ruining the friendship by experimenting, but also a chance you can make it even better.

[coolkid119]

i disagree with everyone else. i say, go for it, just be ready for any responsabilities that may pop up.

[justateen93]

yeah peer presure comes in numbers

[Zan0ra]

Seriously don't recommend organising something like that as every one has said it can get you in a lot of trouble. Just do it with a best friend that way its less.... hmm whats the word..uncomfortable to do around a load of people.

[byee]

I think this is a recipe for a lot of very bad feelings.

What your friend is suggesting isn't actually an 'experiment', but rather an excuse to try sexual things (kissing is sexual, btw), under the guise of a 'party', and the false justification of 'experiment'.

Your instincts here sound correct, there's much that can go wrong when a bunch of horny teenagers comes over without the presence of parents, for the expressed purpose of doing sexual things with eachother.

[Θάνατος]

I agree with everyone here having a sex party is not a good idea. It is a great way to lose friends. It will make a lot of people feel uncomfortable and besides the fact that with raging hormones things can get out of hand in a hurry.

Experimenting should be done as a couple not as a group.

[MisterAndrews]

not a good idea at all. it would be a friedship massacre! You really dont want to experiment in groups... if you really want to do it in pairs where a leak in the group is less likely!

[Joshie]

I would stick to just one friend :yes:

[Brazdar]

Okay, none of my friends said anything about this, so we forgot about it, it was an weird idea of my best friend, when I asked her why she wanted to do this experiment, she told me she wanted to make a pool... I'm glad I know her, because I know she wouldn't do something like this, I was confused at first, because she didn't told me anything, but later I found out she did this to see if I still like her, but we realized we've past that stage and she's the closest thing to me and I'm the closest thing to her, there are no secrets between us, we care too much for our friendship to like each other in any other way. :D

anyways thanks for your advice!

[mr.sexy_bomb]

ok good :D

[Archer600]

That sounds like a good idea exept I would have no limits at all just do anything including sex. I wish my friends would do something like that