ive come to a concusion :-P

[smartkidd]

i have thought about it all night and think i'm bi. I never told anyone but i've actually thought about guys as attractive since last year. But I never thought I was gay. So i am coming to the conlusion that girls and guys are boh equally attracted to me. So my question is should i wait and hide it until well later or should I get it over with. Plus I've known all of my friends for 10+ years and even at the wost of times theywere there for me so i know they'll accept me but what about my parents.

[ShatteredWings]

i recomend you work on making more sense. i could barely understand that.


If you don't think your parents will take you coming out well, then don't.
Just don't tell them.

I don't know how old you are, but being on VT, and what you've said, you're probably around 15? That means you can move out in around three years. Don't worry too much about it

[BlackenedSilver]

Tbh.. I dont think it should matter who you tell and when. B4 you go tell everyone I think you should be completely sure that what you think is true, because after all it could be just hormones.
As Ive put in a previous post, you have alot of time b4 you have to come acomplete conclusion.

But that is just my opinion, Hope it all works out.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Do what is best for you. Not what is best for others, if you think this is what you want to be then say, proclaim it. It is who you are, but if you feel like this isn't quite the way you want to be then talk to someone. Your parent's should understand you desicion.

[Requin]

Maybe you should wait a bit before your bi. Be absolutely sure that your bi first, before you make any commitments to your parents. I would wait, but at the end of the day, it's up to you.

[MisterAndrews]

It would really help if you said how old you are! Im going with 14.... You still have along time before you finish puberty and your hormones settle. Id give it a few YEARS till your 18 maybe. If your feelings stay constant for a few years then you can be pretty sure youre bi, but give it some time before you announce it. You dont want to convince yourself and everyone else then change your mind! I hope this helps!

If you need anyone to talk to PM me or add me on msn.... i'll be glad to talk to you.

Good luck
Adam.

[Trickster]

You should wait a bit. I had suspecion when i was a wee 10 year old. but i didnt blab. at 13 it became more and at 14 i knew. so i told my bff. Wait about id say a month. That way you can see for real and it not just ur hormones telling you something that not real. When you do find out dont go on a mega-phone and announce it. Start wit ur ABSOLUTE truest bestest friend. Then work your way.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

he is 13 it says on his basic info come on people any way just do what you think is best for you

[pontiacdriver]

i have thought about it all night and think i'm bi. I never told anyone but i've actually thought about guys as attractive since last year. But I never thought I was gay. So i am coming to the conlusion that girls and guys are boh equally attracted to me. So my question is should i wait and hide it until well later or should I get it over with. Plus I've known all of my friends for 10+ years and even at the wost of times theywere there for me so i know they'll accept me but what about my parents.

Everyone's situation is different, and it is impossible to give the one-for-all advice. However, my gut instinct is that in light of your being 13 you are still pretty new to puberty, and you must not confuse features that you find attractive in the same sex as a genuine desire to have sexual relations with a member of the same sex. There are perfectly straight people out there who can appreciate the beauty of someone of the same sex. I am not discounting your bi-sexuality in anyway as your feelings are real. However, in light of your being 13 my suggestion is to give yourself more time as the hormones work their way through you. Perhaps as you are a year or two older and more mature both physically and mentally can you know for sure about where you stand. Irregardless of what you are just know you are fine just the way you are.

[Justwondering]

Hmm, Tough one. When this type of issue comes up, Its all about personal preference here. So basically, whats the most comfortable situation for you. If you feel like telling people, and they think less of you, Then they are not true friends/That great of people anyways. If you feel like hiding it, then nothing can stop you.

How I see it is, Boys can say girls are hot or whatever, So Boys should be able to say Boys are hot or whatever also. The ironic part is, I havent told anybody yet either :P.

[karabiner]

if you don't think your parents are open minded enough to accept you as bi, then i don't think they're worth telling. but give it a try, as some parents can surprise you :)