Ya i need sersis help with this girl

[The Air Guitar Man13]

So heres the story at my school there is this one girl named mary and she is goth (not the scary type the hot type) and i sit wit her at lunch every day. ( i am in 8th grade) and we think alike, act alike, dress alike, and well you get the idea . and she has recently broken up wit her bf. and since we are freinds some how we were talking and she ended up telling me that i am 2nd on the list of people she would date,. now i no this might sound a little kreepy but i mean it in the most romantic way possable, but i day dream about kissing this girl and when i sit across from her at lunch i some times have the urge to lean over and plant one right there. and well frankly i am perfect for her in almost every way . so i was wondering if you guys could help boost me to number 1???? please!!!!!!!:):):):):):):)


(P.S.) I have absoutly no previous experience with dating

[DarkWingedAngel]

well here is something you will get a lot but here it goes *drum role*
just be your self

[Avalikia]

In eighth grade there's no need to be #1 to ask a girl out. Most girls at that age have a really long list so #2 really impressive, actually. If you did start asking her out, simply the fact that you're dating her could bump you up to #1.

[The Air Guitar Man13]

well we havent been freinds 4 that long

aaaaand i am like way 2 shy 2 ask her out

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[Random_oso06]

just like what Dezi says be your self then talk to her and slip it in the conversation and see if she says yes

[smartkidd]

if u think that u are the one for her go for it. I hope you guys have an exellent relationship. LOL

[Helpmeplz]

Personally i would get to know her better. simply becuase from the post its sounds as though you're assuming the want for this relationship off of the fact that ou both dress the same. Though i dont know the whole story but theres my advice.
good luck!!!1!

[BlackenedSilver]

Aww.. Thats sounds really romantic, I think if you were to do it and she kissed you back it would be amazing.

I think if you think you are the one for her then go for it, she obvs wanted you to do something or she wouldnt have even told you, you were number 2.
Or you might even be number 1 but she just didnt wanna seem eager, well hey, you never know. ;)

Hope it all works out, Remember to let us know! x

[Trickster]

Thats sweet you day-dream of kissing her. With girls the "Perfect man" is something you can never attain. in fact nobody can. Lost of people day-dream of the one with the incredible body, gets you, hilarious, and just plain fun. They dont imagine the faults it may bring. You need to just go for it. When you go-out you may be too good for a list for her. You'll need your private paper. If your that much in sync then you would make a good couple

[rhapsody275]

Welllll, everyone kinda said what has to be said. but here's my two cents:
A) you definitely have to be yourself, always, anything else would get messy.
B) Be careful before you date this girl. You may like her now, but you have to weigh things, just a little. Do you know why her and her bf broke up? Is there drama surrounding this girl's dating history? I mean, i may be thinking into it a bit much, but dating someone is a whole other beast from just talking to them. Trust me, i've had people who i loved and wanted nothing more than to go out with, and as soon as i started going out with them, things weren't as nice anymore. And you don't want your first time to be like that :)
C) No time is really a good time to ask someone out (some times are better than others....but you can never get the perfect time, it never happens). So when you're feeling particularly bold, just go for it! I agree with BlackenedSilver, she wouldn't have said anything if she didn't want you to do it!

[The Air Guitar Man13]

i am not shure if she will say yes or not

[BlackenedSilver]

If you dont ask you dont get! Thats what I was always told.. so Whats the worst that could happen (As said by dr pepper) She will say no.. thn you just go back to being friends.
But if she didnt want you to do anything I dont think she wold have said anything to you in the first place.

[Θάνατος]

Hey the only way you are going to find out if she will say yes is ask her. Go about it in a way that if she says no that it doesn't disappoint you. The important thing here is to remain friends.

[byee]

Personally, any girl who rated me a 'Number 2' I wouldnlt find too attractive, personally. Who wants to be thought of that way, as the consolation prize?

If you must have this girl, eventhough she sees you as 'less than', I would roll the dice here and just tell her she's your number 1. Then, ask her how her number one rates her. Then do the math for her.

If she's so silly as to not appreciate your enthusiasm, I'd cast my line elsewhere.

[The Air Guitar Man13]

i gave up, im just 2 shy/ ugly

[Gumleaf]

i gave up, im just 2 shy/ ugly

don't give up mate. if the only reason you aren't asking her is because you are shy then i'm afraid you are going to be single for a long time. from what you have said, i would be very confident that she would want to go out with you. use that confidence to ask her.

[Donkey]

i gave up, im just 2 shy/ ugly
Fuck, with that attitude you ain't gettin no one.

Good girls like the shy, nice boys and not the ones who only date for appearance. Ugly? Uhh - number two, dude, number two. That's gotta be good, right? The girl is either doesn't want you to know her desire for you or has some Johnny Depp as number one. Whatever.

I say you flirt a bit, wait a while, then pop the question. Come on man ;)

[Halibut]

just be yourself and you cant go wrong