a slightly akward question

[ShatteredWings]

how am i suppoed to respond to the question "are you gay" at school?

I mean.. it's NOT the business of most people.

actually, onces i was actually asked, not if i was gay, but if i was bi. [well that's a new question...]


Er.. yeah confused here.


Thanks

[Donkey]

Say you're whatever you want to be and it's no one else's business until you grow up and find out for sure.

There's nothing wrong with being homosexual, or bisexual. So, if you do think you are definitely either of these the best thing to do is to tell people. If you don't feel comfortable doing this, you don't need to. But if you do it may stop comments like people expecting you to go out with someone else, or generally making comments about you being hetrosexual which they think may be normal, but actually is no more 'normal' from a homosexual.

Whatever you want to do, it's your decision. If you are either I'm sure any of your friends will understand and will be nice about it. If not, they're not your friends. Anyone else doesn't matter in life.

[ShatteredWings]

Yes i am bi. that's not the point

I'd rather not have it become across the school. i get enough date requests from the male portion of the school, i don't need both, nor the harrasment from living in a very conservative area.

The people asking aren't friends, if they were, i'd tell 'em (privatly)[cause to a friend it's probably easier to accept]

[DarkWingedAngel]

that is a great answer donkey
i would like to add something to that
first it should be none of there businesses at all
so just say to them that it is none of there business then walk away

[Oblivion]

Most kids at my school do it to bully, they don't really care
They just ask you to make you uncomfortable.
So just ignore them,
Its none of their business.

[Donkey]

Thanks, Something Corporate.

girl;377135']Yes i am bi. that's not the point

I'd rather not have it become across the school. i get enough date requests from the male portion of the school, i don't need both, nor the harrasment from living in a very conservative area.

The people asking aren't friends, if they were, i'd tell 'em (privatly)[cause to a friend it's probably easier to accept]
If you feel uncomfortable with males asking you out, you could make it clear to all of them you do not want a sexual relationship yet, this isn't saying your bisexual but will still stop the questions. The only downside is, if there is another person you like it might make it harder to introduce the fact that you want to to them.

[ShatteredWings]

girls in my school are bitches and will sarcasticly ask me out if that got out, sorry i thought i said that [oops. skatter brain]

nick: generally i try to. ("try" being the key word... yeah)

[Donkey]

girl;377148']girls in my school are bitches and will sarcasticly ask me out if that got out, sorry i thought i said that [oops. skatter brain]

nick: generally i try to. ("try" being the key word... yeah)
Some people in life suck. Those people are gonna fail, and honest nice people like you will do well and laugh in their faces when they become whores and you're earning loads with a good job.

[Triceratops]

I definitely agree with Donkey :)

Say what you wanna say and NEVER give a f**k about what others think of your sexuality. If you're bisexual/gay/lesbian then speak the truth. Always stand up for what you believe in :)

[djvous]

say " I am Who I am, And at the moment I choose to keep myself to myself"




Naaah Dont, You'll sound well Dorky, Still... :)