Am I gay??

[tkingp]

I am having problems deciding my sexuality. I normally look at gay porn but sometimes straight. I go to a boys-only school and feel attracted sexually and emotionally to this one boy (who I believe is 100% straight). Otherwise I have only been sexually attracted to guys.

This is complicated.. I feel emotionally attracted to girls and feel a need to impress when around them..

So... am I gay or not. Perhaps bi? Do I need to do anything

[Loner Girl6]

At this stage it's impossible to say what your sexual orentation is.To be deemed gay or hetero you need both a sexual and emotional attraction to a specific gender.Annd to be bi-sexual you have to be both emotionally and sexually attracted to BOTH genders.Because your unsure of how you feel I would say you bi-curious.It seems from what you've said that your leaning more towards being gay but the only way your gonna find out for sure is through experience.With time it will be easier to understand what you desire and what completely turns you off.Theres not really much you can do except be open to any possibility.

[Neverender]

probably hormones, mixed with a school with no girls. you are probably very curious and are attracted physically(like you already said) to other males. and perhaps this one guy's personality you like, not because hes a guy and that sort of thing, but because he maybe thinks like you, or his personality is great. but through the cloudiness of hormones, i would say that you are bi/curious. but figuring put sexuality in the midst of hormones is like being stuck in a snowy crevasse, freezing to death, with 1 match and a pile of wet wood - hard.

[JoshDude]

Too hard to tell. You could be gay, or bisexual, but only time will tell.

[Requin]

I'm afraid it's way too early to tell. You could be gay or bi but we don't know yet. Your hormones mess up feelings and attractions during puberty so you have to be careful.
Because you said you still feel emotionally attracted to girls at the same time, it seems that at the moment, your not gay.
At the moment remember. Don't commit yourself and just go with the flow. And it wouldnt' be a great idea to come out when your not sure.
How old are you btw?

[baseballallstar]

its too early to tell.. i dont even know what i am, but if you are gay, no big deal....Whatever happens though, just be who you are, cuz you only have one life to live and your the one who has to live it.

[tkingp]

I'm 15. Thanks for the help everyone! I guess really I'll just have to wait and see...

[djvous]

well, 1, it is too early yer, but on 2, you could always commit yourself to a 1-night man, then a 1-night women, and see which one you preffered... This isnt the most accurate way, but give it a go...

[DarkWingedAngel]

^^ no! no! no! that is not what to do,one night stands are horrible (it has happened to me)
i say what you should do it wait it out and everything will fall into place
just got out with girls and guys and see with works out over time
wish you the best of luck

[djvous]

^^ There are people who enjoy one night stands... AKA Yours Truly... Just make sure you get the right people, maybe i should have mensioned that