when im i supposed to get the boner

[michael123]

im a turning 16 in 3 months and i have this tough b.c i keep having the opportunity of lo0sing my virginity and just dont i dont get a boner while we are kissinG??when im i suppsed to get it?? & i know im capable of getting a boner b.c i get it with porn

[MrTeen14]

just because you don't get a boner, doesn't mean much, you will most likely get one if you are going to have sex, if not, go to the bathroom, and "get ready"

[The Batman]

Maybe your body is telling you something. You might think your ready but really if your not getting it up your body isn't ready. Don't try and rush it things happen in there own time just enjoy your youth and virtue.

[MrTeen14]

it is possible you are not ready for sexual encounters yet.

[pontiacdriver]

im a turning 16 in 3 months and i have this tough b.c i keep having the opportunity of lo0sing my virginity and just dont i dont get a boner while we are kissinG??when im i suppsed to get it?? & i know im capable of getting a boner b.c i get it with porn

My guess is that kissing is something that does not stimulate you, and not getting an erection while you kiss is not necessarily a sign of a problem. As long as you are aroused by your partner and find her/him very appealing, then getting an erection and staying hard during intercourse will happen like second nature. Remember that first times are rarely the greatest, and it takes practice to get good at sex. The most important thing you can do to prepare yourself for sex is to get to know your partner's body as well as developing excellent communication with her/him. Communication and feedback is the most critical part of sex as without it neither partner is going to know what works and what does not. As long as you have a truly strong relationship with your partner, then any mistakes that you may make are going to be inconsequential as you both will learn as you both go along.

[Picard]

Maybe you're just too nervous :)
You first need to calm down, relax. Simply 'let it flow', so to speak...

[michael123]

i hope the reason is b.c im too nervous b.c actually i get so nervous that i have to hide that im almost shakinG...But thanXs guys for ya help

[djvous]

keep kissing? Trust me, I'm gonna have the same problem, so thanks for posting this thread :)

[Prince_of_Peace]

...ask the person to kiss your boner instead.

[JoshDude]

Happens alll the time, to many, many males.
Its completely normal.
It happens when you drink too much, nervous, anxious etc.
In time you will get one when about to have sex, don't worry.

[chub4chub]

Maybe the person you are with dose not get you arroused. Or maybe you should try playing around with eachother first then see if you get a BONNER.