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bradley16
October 16th, 2008, 03:17 PM
Im 16 4'11 and 97 pounds. Im only 2inches hard and about as thick as a pinky finger and uncut. My balls are about the size of small marbles and stay pulled up tight against my body. Im completely hairless and can't sperm.
So my girlfriend is ready to start having sex. Im scared of what she'll think of me and wonder if im big enough to make her feel good.
Are there any ways to like make it feel like im bigger or something? Or like idk advice anyone?? :/
Donkey
October 16th, 2008, 03:23 PM
You're really really late, probably haven't even started puberty yet. I suggest you don't have sex with her until you feel ready, yourself. You can tell her this, if she loves you, she doesn't care about your penis size or your stage in puberty. How old are you, by the way? If you are in your later teens I suggest you see your GP about how you are very early in puberty, they can trigger hormones and what not to make you faster if you think this is needed. Also looking at your height, you don't seem very tall, although this doesn't differ with penis size it is likely you are yet to have a growth spurt. When you do, your penis will hopefully grow too.
The Batman
October 16th, 2008, 03:24 PM
Um I don't think your even ready for sex. Dude i seems like you haven't even started puberty yet so I think that you should go see a doc and get checked out.
bradley16
October 16th, 2008, 04:04 PM
ive been. my doctor just says im late. :/
The Batman
October 16th, 2008, 04:26 PM
I seriously think that you should wait before you try and have sex. Your body is just not ready and you should at least let puberty get far along before you try.
rsc4life
October 16th, 2008, 04:48 PM
I seriously think that you should wait before you try and have sex. Your body is just not ready and you should at least let puberty get far along before you try.
I agree, I mean, give it a few years, I just don't think that your ready...
Antares
October 16th, 2008, 04:52 PM
Its how big you are, its how you use it.
I voted 1 inch.
bradley16
October 16th, 2008, 05:44 PM
I thought you were ready as long as you could have orgasms. I have like 3 dry ones in a row.
Oblivion
October 16th, 2008, 05:48 PM
You aren't ready mentally for sure, and you probably aren't ready physically either.
There's no rush.
So relax, and wait a year or so before having sex.
Wait until your ready.
The Batman
October 16th, 2008, 05:49 PM
There is no set age at where you can have an orgasm. But you can't even ejaculate so your not ready at all.
theOperaGhost
October 16th, 2008, 06:26 PM
Ok, bud, you're only 16, so you shouldn't be thinking about sex so much. You obviously aren't physically ready for it and most 16 year olds aren't emotionally ready for sex either (even though they all say they are)
You are quite a late bloomer though. You said you've been to a doctor. How recently? If you haven't started to show some signs of puberty in the next year, I would go again, or go to a different doctor.
Good luck, and don't worry about having sex just yet, because you aren't ready for it.
byee
October 16th, 2008, 10:05 PM
Listen, Bradley, it sounds like we both know you';re not ready for sex yet. Just tell your G/f that, and if you have a good relationship, she'll understand and respect you for it.
Sex before puberty is like eating raw eggs, it's just not so good. Just b/c something is available to you and you think it might be good, doesn't mean it's so. You have to think it through.
It's OK to wait, they're be other opportunities when you're developed.
iceyfresh
October 16th, 2008, 10:39 PM
dont have sex until your truly confortible with it and btw ur just a late bloomer so dont worry
Neverender
October 17th, 2008, 06:31 PM
it sounds like you just started puberty. well after your testes start to grow, your pubes will grow in and about a year and a half after that the penis will start to grow. don't have sex unless your ready. and maybe ask her what she'd do if a guy had a small penis or somthing. ask it casually. don't let her clue in that you are the one your talking about. and besides, she shouldn't love you just because of your penis size. she should like you for you. and if she dosn't like you because you have a small penis, find a new girlfriend.
smartkidd
October 19th, 2008, 12:32 AM
i kno wat ure thinkin. The last person you want advice from is a thirteen yearold. But i feel small wen we shower at my skool so i know how u feel. Just to clear things up i skipped the 6th grade so evrybody is older but i got over it. So just tlk to your girlfriend about how ure not ready and maybe she'll understand.
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