Am I Gay? I need help!

[justwondering1995]

Well i'm 13 and i dont know if im gay or not. I watch Gay porn and i fantasize about gay sex while i masturbate. I also am attracted to women sex and i do like girls. I sorta talk like im gay too. I NEED HELP!

[Oblivion]

First, speech has nothing to do with being gay or not.
Its a stereotype that really has nothing to do with who you are.

Secondly, a lot of guys think about males/gay sex when masturbating, and it makes most guys insecure, but in truth its completely fine.

Finally, just because you like gay porn/men sexually, doesn't mean you are gay. To be gay, you really have to like men all over- mentally, emotionally, and physically. You have to be able to say without a doubt you would be happy having a relationship [sexual and otherwise] with a man.

[djvous]

what he dais, if you need re-assurance, ive only been 14 a month, but when i masturbate, i think of gay sex... infact, i find it easier... but only one thing stood in the way of me thinking i was gay. The fact that i was gay for 3 months, then got realy bored of it, I may go back, may not, but dont feel that your gay, just because of a few things.

[MisterAndrews]

I think that there is so much going on with hormones when youre in puberty that you can never really be sure what you are until youre out of it. Dont be worried that you think of boys when you masterbate im sure most people have at least once! You can never control what your brain does so dont even try to fight it.... just roll with it and have fun!

[Zan0ra]

How can you talk like your gay?? um your probabaly curios about same sex activities but nothing more as you cant be gay because you said you liked girls.

[Random_oso06]

yes it is your hormones and for the talking it doesn't even count in to being gay or maybe it does but everyone has feelings about watching the same or the opposite sex

[JoshDude]

Speech has nothing to do with sexuality.
You could be bisexual, or it might just be the hormones talking.

[Trickster]

Because you have a high voice or what ever doesnt mean your gay. Just because you have a low voice doesnt mean your a lesbian. Its a sterotype targeting something you cant control in the least. To be gay you have to:
A) like the same sex physically(sex, the naked body, the body in general)
B) emotionally (To be able to find love, connection and common ground with the same sex)
C) Spirtually ( Can you find your self being completed by the same sex, a real realtionship in which you connect)

If you are missing physically- Your just meant to be REALLY good friend(i.e. finishing eachother sentances and be around eachother alot but nothing love dovey)
If youre missing Emotionally or Spirtually- your just curious is all.

[tbboltz92]

First off your oly what 13 so dont think you know what you like. secondly like everone else says it's probly the hormones kicking in, and it's really not the uncommon. Thirdly some guys just never have a deppening of the voice. Vocal sound is avery unfair gay sterotype.

Hope that help have a nice day.:):D:D

[Donkey]

Yeah, basically all of that. You have a while to go yet, you'll eventually find out which sexuality is best for you.

[rsc4life]

This thread is perfect. Speech isn't really a defining factor of someone who is gay, and neither is gay porn. It's a simple as that.

[philip374374]

you sound bisexual to me~~~~meaning you like boys and girls

[Oblivion]

This is over 3 months old. Please don't bump old threads.