grabbing ass!!!

[Randy93]

well i met my girl friend about 3 weeks ago we had our first kiss on that very same day she took me home and met her parents like an hour after an hour or 2 of kissing and i asked her out 2 days later. i live about 5 hours away from where she lives and i have to take the bus about every 2 weeks (ive only seen her twice) im 15 nd she's 15. i really love her alot and she loves me too! well atleast i think so cuz she tells all of her friends about us and she walks with my pic in her school id and alot of other stuff i don't think shes cheating on me. we really have alot of trust for each other we talk about anything and everything. but thats not the problem. jus wanted to give a little back ground.

the prob is that when we are kissing and making out we often make jokes and stuff she rubs my legs and grabs my but and strokes my penis (she gets me so horny) but when i try to do some of those stuff i think she feels uncomfortable when i grab her ass she holds my hand and puts it on her waist... even when i rub her knee i think she doesn't like it :S so i just stopped... can any 1 tell me wats going tru her mind? does she really trust me like i think she does? how can she touch me and i cant touch her? im just so confused:S id ask her my self but i don't think she would answer truthfully and i don't want her to feel uncomfortable. could this be guilt of having another boy friend and feels guilty when i touch her?

[Neverender]

Well i know from personal experience that long distance relations never work.


and she probably dosn't want you touching her because she feels uncomfertable with you touching her, but she touches you because she may be horny, she wants to see your penis, or some other reason that she may have

[byee]

No one can really tell you with much certainty what's going on in someone else's head, but my best guess is that she's uncomfortable with you touching her intimately. This seems a bit inconsistent, since she seems quite OK touching you intimately. Often, people feel OK doing things to others that make them uncomfortable, often b/c of self esteem issues, often b/c they;re not really ready for that level of intimacy, often just b/c whatever it is that she's doing to you that you like, doesnlt mean that she'll like it to, there's the matter of personal preference.

The only way to find out for sure is to just ask her. If you guys are really sweet on eachother, then there really shouldn't be so much of a problem with this, just be nice about it and avoid making it sound like an accusation. And in any event, it's always important to respect someone's wishes by getting the message and not do whatever it is they seem uncomfortbale with.

[sabin22]

Well i know from personal experience that long distance relations never work.


and she probably dosn't want you touching her because she feels uncomfertable with you touching her, but she touches you because she may be horny, she wants to see your penis, or some other reason that she may have

agreed long distance never work

[thesphinx]

long distance can work fine it just requires a little more work to keep in touch (and 5 hours is not that far).

Anyway best bet is to ask her like sam said we really dont know what could be going on.

[Antares]

General Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Randy93]

... well i guess... she jus does'nt like d touching because she just started to strip for me on her webcam a few nights back :S maybe she feels that if i touch her she might get horny and might do something she doesn't want to do... i guess i jus need to gain her more of her trust and show her that i really love her for who she is and not for wat she has... thanks guys

[Trickster]

A bit insecure about what u might do but knows what she is gonna do. Its like a comfort thing. Long distance hardly work. 5 hours is kidna long if ur young. Nad u got webcam so u can see eachother. But maybe she is feels like she can do what she wants because she knows what she wants, is gonna do and how. But she doesnt know how far and how u wanna do things. Communaction is key. Just talk to her, ur so close so it probably wnt be awkward