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fxckingloco.
October 11th, 2008, 08:29 AM
what makes you SH?

sorry for this big essay coming! i blab quite alot! lol..

im so pathetic and stupid! ive been cutting recently over a stupid boy whos been a dick to me. were not together but we sorta have had a thing for like 3-4 months now.. he went on holiday and promised me hed be with me when he came back.. and said he wouldnt sleep with anyone.. and he just did it. we stoped talking after the first time, then he told me he was sorry loads & missed me like 2 months later and we started things up again, then he went on holiday again about a month ago, slept with some one and then told me he couldnt commit when he got back.. after he promised me he wouldnt do it to me AGAIN! :( i hate it, its so pathetic that i get scars from someone who isnt even really important in my life and hasnt treated me good.

do you think im dumb to self harm over that?!

some people on here have like way more serious issues in there life and i cut over a frickin boy! how sad!

ive got 12 cuts on my left arm bcoz of him, two are really deep :S

DaretoFallup
October 11th, 2008, 08:59 AM
Well really what made me self harm was just way too much stress and i had to release it.

You're not pathetic for self harming over a guy but if thats what makes you s/h, I suggest staying away from them for awhile.

BlackenedSilver
October 11th, 2008, 12:05 PM
I dont think thats pathetic, My first time was over a guy, but then the 2nd and so on was with the stress and pressure that came with exams and everything.

I agree with chelsea, stay away from him for a while.
He is obviously not boyfriend material if he cant commit to a relationship.

Trickster
October 12th, 2008, 01:46 PM
do you truly think that he can do this to you? he has the power to make you feel bad. Has th power to spout stuff and think you will be ok? HELL NO. YOU are a great person. you can be the one to wait and know that you have done nothing to be wrong. Youre so powerful and you dont know it. Stay clear of this guy for awhile. If he asks again say no, say hell no, say screw off. You dont need to feel this pain. People will hurt you, People will harm you. Yet you can fight back. Id reccomendd lying on your bed read a book, or listen you music and relax. I bet the world you will be better.

fxckingloco.
October 13th, 2008, 10:05 AM
yeahh ill try stay away from him =/ its really hard though lol

thank youu for the support (y) :)

southcarolina
October 13th, 2008, 07:49 PM
what are you cutting? food? I don't get it

Oblivion
October 13th, 2008, 07:50 PM
Shes cutting herself
Virtual Teen Forums > The Psychiatric Ward > Cutting and Self Harm
Its the cutting and self harm forum, and shes saying 'SH'
Which is Self Harm