Bi-Sexual or Bi-Curious

[ryanna. genius]

I know fa sure that i like boys i'm clear with that but
i think i like girls two. Like there's this girl at my school
that the were nude pictures of here being sent around
and i saw some and got straight wet one time and thats
not normal to me.

I thought before that I was bi but someone told me that i wasnt
but sometimes i catch myself looking at other girls. and the same
girl at my school i had a dream that me and her were together and today
she passed me and by mistake brushed me and i was like oh my god she
touched me.

oh yeah
p.s
me and my friends were in her clas with here talking and i started
to get nervous when she was looking at me.

[Donkey]

Hi Ryanna,

During puberty this happens. You will be sure of your sexuality after fully maturing after puberty.

Some people think of it as a scale, with sexualities. Gay at one end, bisexual in the middle and straight at the other. You will go through the different areas in the scale until you finish puberty, and then you will have to find out your preferred choice of sexuality.

Perfectly straight men have thought they would have been gay, bisexual whatever during puberty. Once again, it's normal.

It is possible as the girl was pictured naked, she may be interested in a sexual relationship; if she wants to, you could try to talk to her and see what she would think. Many friendships do include kissing, fondering, whatever. Lots of teens do it, this would also help you understand which sexuality you may be by thinking about what you have done and if you made a mistake later on. The same with boys.

It's good you had the courage to bring this up with us.

Thanks,
Donkey.

[ryanna. genius]

umm when do i finish puberty cuz I dont have a clue

[Avalikia]

The end of puberty is, like anything relating to puberty, different for everyone. But I personally haven't heard of anyone being uncertain about their sexual orientation after they turned 17 (though it's certainly possible for that to happen). On the other side of the coin, I've known people who have only ever felt attracted to one gender, ever.

[Donkey]

umm when do i finish puberty cuz I dont have a clue
In your early twenties, usually.