Anyone else?

[Justwondering]

First, I would like to say Hello!, Its been awile since ive been on these forums. Sorry its been so long, I've been travelling around :). So now to my actual post..

Well on May 12th me and my best friend (M-M) Had an experience (Just Mutual Masturbation, And oral). Ever since, All I've wanted to do is tell him, so maybe, just maybe we could get another chance to do what we did together. We did stuff abit into June but ever since he has had a constant stream of girlfriends, So I'd never have the chance to do anything again even if he wanted too. At first I wasnt emotional attached to him, just physical, but now im so emotional attached I cant even go 1 day without talking to him, Plus whenever I see him, or hear about his girlfriends, It hurts to know that he is happy with someone else.

So Basically, Im looking for someone that has had a similar experience, to discuss or just to chat with. I have all types of messengers (Msn, Aim, Yahoo) So I can chat where ever. :)

Thanks for any help or experiences someone/anyone can share.

[george]

If you really want to, you should invite him over to your house and ask maybe if you guys get onto the topic of sex and whatnot. Is your friend curious or was it just a best friend thing?

[Justwondering]

If you really want to, you should invite him over to your house and ask maybe if you guys get onto the topic of sex and whatnot. Is your friend curious or was it just a best friend thing?

If you read my post on May 12th It says wht happened, But basically in short,
He asked if I had any porn, So I turn some on. We both started masturbating, and he said he was going to take off the blankets because it was weird and so did I, and then after alittle bit he said "I wonder who is bigger". While masturbating he also asked "Whats a blowjob or handjob feel like, want to try?". After a couple times of him asking I said yes, and we both Mutual masturbated and Experimented with Oral Sex. I got really attached and he doesnt seem like he wants to do it anymore (Maybe it was just his hormones at the time :()

[george]

Ah yes, I remember reading that post. Well if he's straight it'll be really hard to have anything other than a really good friendship.

[Justwondering]

Ah yes, I remember reading that post. Well if he's straight it'll be really hard to have anything other than a really good friendship.

Yeah, the post was abit ago so im surprised you even remember it :P, But im not 100% sure if he is straight or not. Some days he'll tell me "stop acting so gay" because im just trying to drop hints that im bi-curious/sexual. But other days he'll take off his shirt (sometimes his pants) for no reason. He has had about 4 or 5 girlfriends since we did stuff so Im thinking he is straight, or needs girlfriends to make himself think he's straight

[george]

Well for one, taking off his shirt doesn't really mean anything other than he might have felt hot lol

I would wait and just kind of figure out if hes bi-curious. You don't wanna rush into it seeing as how you haven't told him that your bi yet. Just keep hinting and see if he does anything but be careful as you don't want to lose your friendship with him over something like this.

[Justwondering]

Well for one, taking off his shirt doesn't really mean anything other than he might have felt hot lol

I would wait and just kind of figure out if hes bi-curious. You don't wanna rush into it seeing as how you haven't told him that your bi yet. Just keep hinting and see if he does anything but be careful as you don't want to lose your friendship with him over something like this.

I dont know if ill ever know if he's bi-curious/sexual or not though because one day he'll act bi but the other days he'll act straight. Like he brought up and asked me to do half the stuff we did together, but other days he'll be like "im straight" or "why are you acting so gay". If we ever did anything again though, it wouldnt ruin our friendship because before when we did stuff it didnt effect anything, We just woke up like normal the next day and I made him breakfast and everything went on like normal :)

[george]

Well if you really want to know, you could always risk just telling him your bi and see what result you get from that.

[Donkey]

Try kissing under some through some blankets or something, if he likes it, take the blankets off and get it on lol :P