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chelsay13
October 6th, 2008, 07:32 PM
ok, i was dating this guy last week, then we had to brake up because my friend hit on him and crap. then this guy (who i've been friends with since 3rd grade) asked me out. he is such a little cutey, not hot, cute (like baby cute). I couldn't say no so i said yes. now i relize i miss my ex soo much. i feel like i love him. I really want to brake up with my current boyfriend since i don't like him anymore, but he is so cute i can't brake up with him!
so how do i brake up with him?
and when i do, what do i tell my ex? that i love him?
Zephyr
October 6th, 2008, 08:05 PM
Just tell the truth... tell your current boyfriend that you still have feelings for your ex and want to get back with him. He can't hate your for being honest with him. And tell your ex that you want to give it another try and see where it goes from there.
byee
October 6th, 2008, 08:17 PM
You're breaking up with a really cute guy who you like and who likes you b/c you like your ex, eventhough you donlt know if he'll go back out with you? This doesn't sound like a sensible plan to me!
First, I'd do a little soul searching and try to remember exactly why he's an 'ex' in the first place. What happened, and what has changed since?
If you still want him, then before I broke up with Mr. Cutiepie I'd find out if the Ex is available and willing to resume a relationship with you. If he is, and you really want him, then you break up with the cute one. If not, if your Ex is unavailable or unwilling, then you stay with the new one and see what develops.
Typically, time moves in a forward direction, eventhough our feelings often take a while to catch up. Don't blow something that might just turn out to be got and special and maybe even better b/c of nostalgia.
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