I lost it....

[Rutherford The Brave]

I've seemed to have lost all my faith is humanity. People never change, they never hold promises and they never trust me. I trust them and what do they do. They come over my house smelling of freshly burnt weed and whiskey trying to see if they can hang out with Noor and I. The last time that I actually put effort into looking good was on my birthday, and even then people were straight forward. Saying things like" I got to be honest, you look old." I can hardly trust Noor now, she wanted to sleep over our friend Emily's but even with her parents there I had to say no. It just seems like I am always with the baby and she isn't. Which isn't true it's just hard to wake up every night when the little one peed, and letting Noor sleep. I'm exhausted; emotionally and physically. I guess this is really what being a parent was like. I shouldn't have been so optomistic going into this.

[theOperaGhost]

Greg, being a parent is tough and hard and draining...the next couple of years are going to be hell, but can you look at your daughter and just not feel good? (I think I worded that badly, but I couldn't think of how to word it).

You're 16 years old and you have a baby...it's going to be hard for years. Things will get better as all three of you grow up together. You can make it, Greg.

[Zephyr]

Sweetie, you've done a wonderful job this far, don't give up the good fight! It takes a man to be a dad and I believe that you've got what it takes. From what it sounds like, you've put your heart and soul into your family. In the end, your daughter will truly be worth it. You've just got to keep on going and things will get better hun. If you're having trust issues, I'm sure Noor would talk it through with you = ]

[DarkWingedAngel]

wow tough i no it is hard to be a teenager and a parent at the same time but as the years go by it will get better
hope it works out for you

[byee]

Greg, it's a huge adjustment! I think you and Noori should sit down and have a very long, very heart felt convo about your feelings and the responsibilities you both face. And come up with some kind of system, a plan to help eachother out and support eachother not only ewth the sheer amount of exhausting physical work, but also in supoorting eachother emotionally.

Having a baby is a life altering (and relationship changing) event. It needs to be talked out and planned for, on an ongoing basis.

[Hyper]

Greg, it's a huge adjustment! I think you and Noori should sit down and have a very long, very heart felt convo about your feelings and the responsibilities you both face. And come up with some kind of system, a plan to help eachother out and support eachother not only ewth the sheer amount of exhausting physical work, but also in supoorting eachother emotionally.

Having a baby is a life altering (and relationship changing) event. It needs to be talked out and planned for, on an ongoing basis.

Yeah was gonna post without reading a thing ( like I usually do )

But saw this

Talk to Noor Greg don't give up! You've already come this far so be stubborn :D

[ShatteredWings]

You've already come this far so be stubborn :D

he's come this far because he is stubborn :)


greg, you knew having a baby would change your life, right?
Well, here's the proof.

People are nuts, okay established fact.
Not everyone is out to hurt you, noor and chyanne.

At the moment, you're problem is Noor not being "enough" of a parent, if i've read your post correctly.

It's overwhelming you, she's probably overwhelmed too, and doesn't know how to cope as well.

But you need to talk to her, get what's bugging you out. Nobody's psychich, so who'll know you find that bothersome unless you tell them

[Techno Monster]

If I was in your place, I would of cracked, badly. You are very strong, you can do this. Be proud your a daddy. You have done so well!! You can do it!

[DarkWingedAngel]

try to work out a system for night time and everything
so one night u can get the baby when she cries
then the next she can get the baby etc;
or you could do shifts
try to work out a system
it might work out

[byee]

Haven't heard from you in a while, Daddy, but in reviewing this thread I noticed your sig and laughed ("Tickle me pink and I become dizco pink lemonade"), and realized then that you'll be Ok...........

...........Kiss the baby for me.