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clr9823
October 6th, 2008, 12:44 PM
Most people here talk about experimenting with another guy. I'm wondering, is it considered experimenting when with a girl. (not a relationship, same circumstances as with a guy._

Mzor203
October 6th, 2008, 12:48 PM
If you're not in a relationship with a girl, but you are playing around, yes, it is a type of experimenting. Doing anything to try it out but not getting serious about it is experimenting.

clr9823
October 6th, 2008, 12:50 PM
If you're not in a relationship with a girl, but you are playing around, yes, it is a type of experimenting. Doing anything to try it out but not getting serious about it is experimenting.

Thanks, good answer!:yes::yes::yes:

byee
October 6th, 2008, 01:09 PM
"Experimentation" often refers to activities that people want to do and never have done, but need to justify it or otherwise excuse the potential lapse in judgement it represents. Typically, it's used with things like same sex stuff, drugs, etc., things that are new and things that are typically uncomfortable b/c of some taboo. That's why you hear q's about 'experimenting' with other guys, or with drugs. Rarely do you hear people ask if it's OK to experiment with learning to play the cello or taking a foreign language!

So, (to me anyway) "experimentation" is often code for "not totally OK". Typically, that includes any activity that is not totally acceptable to the experimenter.

tbboltz92
October 6th, 2008, 02:40 PM
A fetish is something that your obssed about. I guess thats the best way to describe it to you.

southcarolina
October 6th, 2008, 02:55 PM
He was not asking what a fetish was, that's his signature

Attax
October 6th, 2008, 06:11 PM
I definitely agree with Sam. That is a good way of putting it! Just try to assess the consequences before you make a decision

lolboi06
October 6th, 2008, 06:55 PM
yeah i totallly agree if u want to do something to just do i it is considerd experimenting

notsure101
October 6th, 2008, 07:38 PM
If oyur not like dating or anything and messin round with her then yes

P.S 800th post :-D