How do I deal with this?

[rsc4life]

My grandma will be in town for 48 more hours. This is terrible.

She was a bad mother, and she just asks rude questions, and she really imposes... I don't know what I can do to control my temper when she asks me really rude questions about like romance and school that she really doesn't have any right to know about.

she is not like my other, late, grandma. she was sooo nice. and both of my grandpas were great too.

but she is my only grandparent left. and I love her but she is just so imposing and rude. How do I deal with her?

:bigsmash:

[Falk 'Ace' Flyer]

1) Put up with her for 20 minutes.
2) Go upstairs for the rest of the night.
3) ??? (preferably no gunshots)
4) Profit!

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Be polite. I know it's hard, but if I understand, beind rude will make it worse. Just politely change the subject if she's prying. If you can't, say "I'd rather not talk about that" and leave it at that.

[Mzor203]

Have you tried talking to her about it? Next time she says something rude or imposing to you, just tell her that she's asking too many questions that you don't want to answer, and that you'd like it if she stopped. She should listen.

If you've tried that, maybe you can get to her through one of your parents. Tell your mom or dad how you feel, and ask them if there's something they can do. Hopefully they can help the situation.

If they can't, the other thing you could do is just not answer the questions in a way that gives her any information. Try not to make it seem like you're hiding something, but don't really give an answer either. She should pick up eventually.