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The Batman
October 5th, 2008, 07:43 PM
Ok so I've been trying to find away out from my grandma's house and well it just fell into my lap. My mom is back in Missouri finalizing the divorce with my dad and she's going to be here all month. This is my chance to leave and be back with her. If I go I'll have a small job printing programs for a church and I could always get another. This is scary because I don't know what to do.
rsc4life
October 5th, 2008, 07:45 PM
Well, if you are really looking to get out of your grandma's house. Then just go! I have no more complex advice. If the opportunity is there, take it.
Mzor203
October 5th, 2008, 08:11 PM
If you already have a job lined up, that's good, but a piece of advice would to be to make sure you have something that would give you the income you need before you leave, lest you be running around like a madman trying to find something when you need extra income.
But if the chance is there, seize it.
Falk 'Ace' Flyer
October 5th, 2008, 08:17 PM
Carpe diem.
Oblivion
October 5th, 2008, 08:33 PM
Sounds awesome Thomas!
Go for it!
Rutherford The Brave
October 6th, 2008, 06:00 AM
What ever suits you best Big bro! Good luck!
Requin
October 6th, 2008, 10:23 AM
Whatever you think is right. It's your decision. Go for it.
pontiacdriver
October 9th, 2008, 10:02 PM
Ok so I've been trying to find away out from my grandma's house and well it just fell into my lap. My mom is back in Missouri finalizing the divorce with my dad and she's going to be here all month. This is my chance to leave and be back with her. If I go I'll have a small job printing programs for a church and I could always get another. This is scary because I don't know what to do.
My view is that you should stay in the place where you will not only be the happiest but also will have the most stability. What I mean is that if you have access to excellent schools and are financially secure with your grandmum but would not have the same with your Mum, then there is no question that you should stay with your grandparent. However, if you truly hate your grandparent and/or have serious issues with her, then you should move in with your Mum without question. Moving in with your Mum might be easier said than done because if she is not financially secure or does not have a good job or a place to stay, then your staying with her might cause her problems. Also, your Mum and Dad might not be emotionally strong enough to handle other responsibilities right now due to the divorce. As a result, you were probably placed with your grandparent knowing that you would be provided for without any problems.
Basically, before considering moving in with your Mum you need to look at the following:
1) Whether you will be in a good school system
2) Whether your Mum can afford to have you live with her
3) Is your Mum strong enough emotionally after the divorce to handle a full plate of responsibilities?
4) Is your grandparent and Mum in agreement that you should live with your Mum?
Attax
October 9th, 2008, 10:14 PM
Carpe diem.
I must say, quite an amazing quote . . .
HAHA! It helps knowing what it means. . . if yall want ot know pm me or something
iJack
October 9th, 2008, 10:52 PM
Seiz the day.
Mzor203
October 9th, 2008, 11:10 PM
HAHA! It helps knowing what it means. . . i
It also helps if you know Latin. ;)
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