too big?

[star_face]

ok so the past few guys i've had sex with have said i'm really small, meaning the inside of me, but they were quiet big, last night tho sex really hurt and it felt like he was fourcing my insides up and i was having really sharp pains and i told him not to go all the way in, and after that it was ok, but i kinda felt it was annoying him after a while.

i was just worried tho if we do have sex and he goes all the way in is it possiable he could do internal damage if he forces him self in?

also is there anything i could do to make myself bigger? like exercises ect

i really enjoy sex but atm it's being a pain having to limit myself and only do what doesn't hurt.
x

[BeautifulSilence]

i was just worried tho if we do have sex and he goes all the way in is it possiable he could do internal damage if he forces him self in?

There's a possibility of damaging the cervix, I don't know a lot about it, but I do know that it's immensely serious if that happens.


also is there anything i could do to make myself bigger? like exercises ect

I know that they give a series of instruments to people after sex change operations, which are designed to slowly stretch the vagina to a "normal" size (as well as stoping it from closing) but I doubt you could get a hold of any... Besides, being small or tight is normally considered a good thing, especially as you age.
I think it's best if you just be careful when having sex, and try using lubricant.

[DarkWingedAngel]

well from what i no is if his penis is mor than 6 in it can not go in all the way because the vagina is only 6 in deep
so that might be the problem

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Any time you have sex, there's a risk of some bruising or other mild damage to the tissue in that area, but when the guy forces it the risk goes up. That's one of the things they look for when a girl reports being raped--often there's a lot of bruising and even some abrasions. In the future, with any guy, just be aware that you might have this problem. Try to have some lube handy, it could make things a little easier, and don't ignore foreplay. Foreplay is an important part of arousal for the girl, and without it you might not produce as much natural lubrication, making sex more painful. Also, if the guy is just trying to force himself in right off the bat, that could be part of the problem too. Have your guy kinda slowly work his way in, give you more time to adjust to him.

But most importantly, don't feel forced to deal with the pain just to please a guy. If he's annoyed that's his problem, you have just as much right as he does to actually have a good time.

[Antares]

Yes, there is a possibility of damage. It could tear some things inside of you and internal bleeding and just other bad things so it is best to be safe.
Now, as far as you being "small" are physically small as in your stature, like how tall are you?
If you are short then your body obviously may not be able to handle a 6 or 7. However your vagina is stretchable so maybe if you have him "practice" and do some stretching by him inserting more and more each time then that may help.
Don't feel bad about it though. At least you have a vagina and had sex with him because you really don't have to. If he doesn't like it then thats his problem.
He should be accepting and willing to cooperate with your needs.
Hope that helped. Good luck :D

[star_face]

no i'm not feeling forced into it, he's been really nice about it and we are working on it and taking things slow, we did use lube and forplay i just think the case is i'm to small for him.

in answer to the question how tall am i, am 5;6ft, but the guy did tell me some girls he's been with can easily take him and some just can't.

it's just annoying for both of us if we accidently go in to far and then get a sudden sharp pain, i was just worried if we did it too ofern i could be damaging myself.
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[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

As long as you're aware, and you stop when it hurts you're not so likely to damage yourself. The more serious injuries are harder to get accidentally; your biggest concern with what you're doing is probably some bruising and/or soreness. Just stay aware of yourself and if you get that sharp pain, or it's more than just a little soreness, slow things down. Sounds like you're pretty much doing all you should be.

Something else I've heard, is that it may be easier for him to go into you when he's not 100% hard yet, so he's a little smaller. Supposedly it's easier for you to stretch around him more gradually as he kinda grows than it is to force it.

[ally.may33]

if you feel any pains, serious pains, i could be dangerous. i think, if you can, talk to your doctor. just be careful

[madcat]

well from what i no is if his penis is mor than 6 in it can not go in all the way because the vagina is only 6 in deep
so that might be the problem

technically the vagina is 6 in deep but with stimulation(pleasure) it can expand also the cervix can be a natural "orgasm spot" if prodded. But in reality the vagina can hold almost up to any size penis with enough pleasure. but not all espically if hes like 18 in. lol:D

[BeautifulSilence]

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