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Trickster
October 4th, 2008, 08:28 PM
Im bi leaning more to boys. When im with a boy i seem to not be able to start a conversation as easily as when im with a girl. Ive fallen in love wit a boy and he usually started it. I could talk wit him alot when he started it but i couldnt hardly start one. With a girl i seem to just never be able to stop. Whats goin on?

Mzor203
October 4th, 2008, 10:51 PM
Well, it's usually hard to start a conversation with someone you like, as you can be nervous about what they'll think about you, what to say, etc. Now, maybe it could be that you're more nervous when talking to boys because in our society it's not as "normal" for boys to like boys, so it adds an extra thing to be nervous about on top off all the rest of it. With girls, maybe all the factors don't build up enough to make you nervous.

Don't worry about it, everyone gets nervous, it's nothing to be worried about. In fact, it's normal, and programmed into our bodies.