Break up

[dmeek7]

ok....how do u deal with a break up with one that u loved

[JoshDude]

Well if it is definetly over, and there is no possible way of getting back together and working things out, then you have to tell yourself that the person you broke up with isnt 'the one'. It may seem hard, I know, but you need to get your life back on track.

Basically you need to keep yourself occupied so that you can start over. Perhaps go out and meet somebody new, or hang out with friends and have fun.

[BlackenedSilver]

Yea, you just have to keep yourself busy and dont dwell on that person.
Think about all the bad things about them, all the things they did that you hated.
Then after time you might be able to forget about them.

Oh.. and if you feel you need to cry.. cry! Dont hold it all in, or it might all explode at the stupidest thng that upsets you.

Hope your ok. :D

[rsc4life]

You know what. There are other people. And I know it would be really difficult to go through that. But I am sure, you will find someone great. Just give it time.

[Gumleaf]

i've been there and i know how much it hurts. but i agree with leigh, try and find ways to take your mind off her. do things with other friends, keep busy and stuff. although it will hurt for a while, i promise you that it gets better. but above all, don't be afraid to show emotion and make sure you turn to your friends to support you.