my crush likes me back

[DarkWingedAngel]

so my crush likes me back and im realy happy so we are goin out on a date this weekend
but i got a problemo we were watching a girls B-Ball game together yesterday and we were sitting side by side at the back where knowone could see us
and he started to like touch me down there im ok with it and i realy liked it and got so aroused it was not even funny
but then a girl that is maddly inlove with him came and saw this
and got really mad
so he started to do it more and he took my hand and put it on his spot
witch i was ok with but he was so fricken hard
how can i learn to control him

[thesphinx]

Communication is the Key here, tell him how you are feeling if you don't like what he is doing tell him!
That's what a relationship is about and if you can't do that then you won't have a very good relationship.

[DarkWingedAngel]

well i like it and everything it is just when i found out how hard he was i freaked
and btw we have not even gone on a date yet
the date is this sunday

[The Batman]

You can't control him but maybe you should get him to control himself.

[DarkWingedAngel]

i mean he was so friken horny he fingured me in public

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well if YOU didn't mind it (I think you said you liked it?) just make sure that he knows you'd prefer if you guys did that in private. Especially where other jealous girls can't see!

[DarkWingedAngel]

well im ok with him doin that any where but i was just so freaked to find out how big he was down there and i don't no
like he could do something with that and idk
i guess im just worried that it might hurt idk alot



EDIT: omgz i just realized is he just useing me

[george]

Aaww I'm sorry to hear that Desi, but how did you come to realize that? Don't make assumptions just yet until you've atleast gone out on a date with him like on Sunday.

I personally think that since you two haven't even gone on a date yet, you shouldn't really be doing this kind of stuff yet but that's just me. You said you did like it and that you were okay with it so you should tell him that you guys should do it somewhere else where its more private and not in public like at a basketball game. But you guys just need to control yourselves for now, go on the date first.