inseperable

[Gumleaf]

ok, you people here who know me and whatever would know that my gf joanne and i are pretty much inseperable. you would know this by how much i talk about her and stuff. so here's the deal. jo and her parents have left for a 4 day holiday (we have a long w/end this w/end) with other relatives and i won't see her now until late on monday. this will be the longest we've been apart since we got together in march and i'm feeling a bit down because of it.

so anyways, my question is, is it really healthy for us to be as inseperable as we are? we spend time together everyday whether it only be a few mins or sometimes hours. we talk on the phone for ages everyday too and of course sms eachother heaps too. should we maybe spend more time apart? or am i just paranoid because its the first time we will be apart for so long? i really don't know, i'm just a weird person i think. meh.

[Oblivion]

Well other than being your girlfriend she is your best friend
And being with your best friend a lot is common, so why should it be any different?
You guys love each other a lot, and it's fine for you to feel down when she has to go somewhere without you.

[Mzor203]

I agree with Nick for the most part. But it's only four days. Getting down because it's that long seems a little much. Just a little, but if you don't give each other time sometimes, it may turn out to be a problem at a later date.

So just be cautious.

[theOperaGhost]

Stephen, you're not weird.

Anyway, I think you could just be a bit paranoid, although a little bit of separation isn't a bad thing either. I don't think it's unhealthy to spend as much time together as you do, but I think spending time with other people or alone in very important too. I know you'll make it through the weekend just fine though, bud! If you need people to talk to, we are here.

EDIT: I agree with Rex on this one.

[Rutherford The Brave]

If your clingy unseperable yes, if your not no. Noor and I are definatly inseperable. Before Cheyenne we were together with friends, at the movies, out to eat, at school, etc. I think to an extent its fine but if it becomes your life then it isn't good.

[Hyper]

I think you should stop worrying over useless things

If you want to be together with your girlfriend all the time, and she does also then its fine as long as you still have your friends and still do what your supposed to do and like to do in general

[pontiacdriver]

It is great that you and your girlfriend are really close, but you both should not be spending all of your respective free time with each other as it is definitely healthy to spend time apart, too. If you both are around each other all of the time, then you both will eventually get on each other's nerves or start to get bored. Being around others helps bring in fresh experiences and allows you both to grow by interacting with others. It is totally normal to feel down when your girlfriend is away, but at the same time you both should also have other outlets beside each other for times when you both must spend time apart such as family vacations.