Tommorow...

[Cable]

SO I thought about asking the girl out on friday, but I had an ear surgery (very minor) on sat, followed by a weekend trip to a football game.

So is it a good idea to ask a girl on a Monday to do something (movie, ect) on Friday? SHould I wait, or go for something sooner?

[Cable]

Shes not yet. Im hoping she will be tho. Right now we are just good friends. However we havent seen eachother yet outsidde school/the bus.

And I havnt had a gf before.

[Cable]

SO do you think it is safe to ask her to hang out?

Im just afriad that if I do and she says no, ill lose any amount of friendship I had with her.

[barryluvsjasmin]

i fink u shud just ask her on monday,ask some of ur frendz,and ask her...if she says yes,then tell her to bring some of her frendz...

[Elokyn]

safe bet...don't say "do you want to go out on a date with me" say...do you wanna go to a movie with me or something like that. That way if she does say no you can always say oh I just wanted to hang out and it won't damage the friendship.....and if she says yes you have all of friday to call it a date....if she says yes I wouldn't invite friends.....but that's just me.

[Cable]

Oh I know for a fact that she deosnt like the whole "a group of friends" thing. She told me how one of her girlfriends asked her to a movie like that where the other girl was bringing a guy she liked, but she turned it down becaus eshe didnt want to be part of that. Also I think it would be a bit akward, trying to flirrt with her with my friends around.

I didnt ask her today because my friend who usually goes home with his brother rode the bus today, and I know he would make fun of me for it.

But on the bus he was making fun of her for going to a broadway play (jokingly), and she was like, "Caleb, hurt him for me."(she was laughing of course).

Now im goign to tell myself to do it tommorrow, but i know i wont do it. God, I am so pathetic.