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chelsay13
September 29th, 2008, 06:22 PM
I've read a few places it is, I'm just not sure.
what exactly hurts?

Atonement
September 29th, 2008, 06:30 PM
It really depends on the woman. Female's hymen "bursting" or popping as in "popping the cherry" is what can cause pain. But some women dont experience ANY pain at all. Nor bleeding. The only pain that could or should happen is when one loses their virginity. And even then, there are ways to help prevent pain. One way being having the woman on top and them in control to help know their limits.

The other sort of pain that is described is just uncommon stretching in the vagina. The first time, woman aren't used to large objects like that being up there and can cause pain.

Θάνατος
September 29th, 2008, 06:49 PM
Addison is right.

The important thing to remember here is to go slow and use plenty of lube. I would say that if you want to have sex that you should start out by allowing the person to finger you. Well anyway have fun and good luck.

Mr. Smithers
September 30th, 2008, 04:56 AM
I wouldn't have been that detailed about it. I wouldn't exactly say it hurts, just depends on the mood, the person, the setting, the preference, the actions, motions etc. So when you decide to engage in sexual relations if you decide, you will probably figure out a comfortable way, I'm sure you will. Just be careful though.

Green_Fan
December 11th, 2008, 12:12 PM
i had sex and it deppends the woman, personally it hurt a little, but not even a second, was nothing, anyway some girls hurt a lot, my bff couldn't even let the penis get inside becouse it was to painfull.