help

[The_guy]

ok i have a big problem. one of my best friends is a girl and i really like her. the only thing is i keep having sexual thoughts about her and i dont want to because i respect her. and its hard to go swimming with her and stuff like that because of that. can someone help me out. is this ok or am i a pervert.

[Rutherford The Brave]

How would that make you a pervert, its natural to think about the ladies. Especially because your in puberty and hormones are raging.

[DarkWingedAngel]

One thing
You are not a pervert you are just going through puberty and curious.
It is totally ok to have sexual feelings about other people.
Just don't let it get out of hand and start becoming reality unless u become bf/gf (if you are really good friends i advise u not to go out, it sometimes ruins the friendship).
It is totally ok to think these thoughts!

[Θάνατος]

You are not a pervert. Like others have said it is perfectly normal to have sexual feeling about girls. It has a lot to do with hormones, but sexual attraction is perfectly normal. Good Luck and don't worry about it too much.

[JoshDude]

Yeah perfectly normal. Just tell yourself you only want to be friends with her and you should be fine.

[Requin]

Your not a pervert. I had this problem myself. Apart from the swimming bit.
It's not a problem to fancy your friend. There's nothing uncommon or wrong about this. Don't worry.

[Neverender]

ok i have a big problem. one of my best friends is a girl and i really like her. the only thing is i keep having sexual thoughts about her and i dont want to because i respect her. and its hard to go swimming with her and stuff like that because of that. can someone help me out. is this ok or am i a pervert.

its hormones. your no pervert for thinking about a hot girl. have you ever tried asking her out?