big problem with puberty

[andy2000]

okay....
i just turned 15 last month
i dont have any pubic or armpit hair
its basically ruining my life at the moment
should i just wait...?
consult a doctor....?

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

How is that ruining your life?

Don't worry about it. Everyone develops at different rates, and some people do things in different orders. Just like some girls' breasts develop earlier or later than other girls their age, some guys don't grow much body hair at the same time their peers will. It's very likely that nothing is wrong with you, and that the hair will grow in later on. Some guys don't have a whole lot of hair anyways, so even if you only end up with a little bit, no one is going to be grossed out or make fun of you if your armpits aren't hairy enough. :)

[dylan94]

nai mate, it's kool ... i honestly don't know how u feel but i got a 17 year old cousin that has just started ... you'll start when your body is ready

[justateen93]

yeah think ur kinda of lucky to not have to deal with hair its annoying and some people dont like to have pubs

[andy2000]

[QUOTE=Kaleidoscope Eyes;366922]How is that ruining your life?



the reason i say that is because i found a girl i really lke and she likes me but i dont wanna date now since im at such an age and still have no pubic hair

[Sumitup]

you can date the girl without worrying about how far along you are with puberty... You simply don't do anything sexual... then eventually you will develope.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Even if you date this girl and she happens to realize you're hairless, she's not likely to care. By the time you get to a point in your relationship where it would even be appropriate for her to notice such a thing, I should hope she cares about you enough that something so insignificant wouldn't bother her anyways. In fact, there are quite a few girls who would prefer that their guys have less hair down there. You're totally normal and it's nothing to worry about.

Besides, this isn't likely to be the only girl you'll ever have feelings for, and you've got a lot of time left to find the right one. Don't let your concerns over something that will fix itself get in the way of your romantic relationships.

[andy2000]

i thought about all this and i know she wouldnt care im sure but its just embrassing

[southcarolina]

though being hairless is embarassing and people may think you're gay by thinking you shave it, the only way to do it is wait

[DrDrDrDrDr]

you are a late bloomer etc. and trust me, you aren't missing out on anything lol

[The Batman]

though being hairless is embarassing and people may think you're gay by thinking you shave it, the only way to do it is wait
How are people going to call him gay because he's hairless?

Your just going through puberty late just give it another year and if nothing happens then go see a doctor.

[Neverender]

okay....
i just turned 15 last month
i dont have any pubic or armpit hair
its basically ruining my life at the moment
should i just wait...?
consult a doctor....?

wait. no doctors are needed untill your 19 or so and still no pubic hair. and that girlfriend may actually enjoy you not having any pubes. but she shouldn't care anyways.




oh, and This is my 500th post!!:)

[broadwaydude]

dont worry dudeitll come ur probaly just a late bloomer

[cokehead194]

hiiiiiiiiiiii!!!!!!!

[Donkey]

Seth, you aren't helping.

Andy, just like height, nose size and bra size everyone's different; if anyone cares, they are only interested in you from a physical point of view. You want someone who looks at you in an emotional sense and doesn't care about the amount of pubic hair you have or any statistics or facts about your personal body. As you've been told, some girls do like some grooming down there, so it's not a bad thing if you don't turn out with much.

[kickasskaratedude]

dude i feal your pain i have like no armpit hair and it is kinda embarrassing but i dont think there is anything you can do about it