Girls, help please.

[ViciousScheme]

Im 14, in high school, had some previous GF's but I guess their unsatisfied with me. What do you guys want? This is just SO CONFUSING. I take them to movies, I kiss them on occasion, I hold their hand, but that never seems to be enough. They just dump me and get really mad at me and blow me off. Im REALLY nice too! What can I do to make them happier?

[Zephyr]

It's highschool, a lot of girls at that age can't fully appreciate having a nice guy. It could also just be that you arn't their type of guy, who's to say? The dating game is going to be confusing 99.9% of the time in high school. Every girl is different in their preferences in guys, but that always changes over time. Once you get older, you'll be able to make better sense of all of this. But if anything, you can ask girls who are friends this question and see what a majority of them say.

[Attax]

I agree with Zephyr, and also from personal experience (since I am a guy and all) there is no one way to define what all girls want. My current girlfriend hates holding hands and such, and there is no way to get a small sample and say that that is what all girls want, because you can't really dictate what they all want just like you can't dictate the perfect girl for all guys.

[rsc4life]

Ok, this is what I think.

Teenage relationships are often important to one, and not important to the other.

Find someone who you think cares about having a relationship.