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Wiszbone77
September 27th, 2008, 09:28 PM
I am 16 and a virgin and proud of it, but when the time comes to have sex. I am a little worried that I may premature ejaculate. I'm not sure but I think everyone may have a little fear of this, but I am not sure, but I have been masturbating since i was 11 i think, and currently if I am looking at porn and I am going straight for the money, it only takes me a couple mins before I can cum. I have read that when you feel your about to cum, back off and then go at it again and just keep doing this to "train" yourself.

So the thing is, I am not too worried about it but, does it sound like I may premature ejaculate my first time? Also, someone who has maybe had this experience and has had sex, is it really hard to hold it back? or whats up...


any and all advice is appreciated, thanks

byee
September 27th, 2008, 09:33 PM
First, sex and masturbation are very different, the physical and emotional sensations are different, so what happens with one cannot be used to accurately predict what will happen with the other.

Time to orgasm is determined by a lot of things, such as arousal/excitement, time since last orgasm, energy level/tiredness, emotional factors, and the like.

Who knows what your first time will be like, but like any skill, sexual skills are learned gradually over time, so you tend to get better as it all becomes more familiar. And, after the first time, there will be other times, so regardless of what happens, there's always next time. And with a loving partner, it's not the time element that matters most, anyway.

Θάνατος
September 27th, 2008, 09:50 PM
Masturbation and sex are different, but if you learn how to control your ability to cum it will be more enjoyable when you do have sex.

Don't worry your first time awkward. Just relax and enjoy it when the times comes. Good luck and please use condoms when that time comes.

Sumitup
September 28th, 2008, 09:40 PM
If I were you I wouldn't worry too much about it... Plus, it's easier to last longer if you don't think about how it's going to end... If you catch what I'm saying...