My Girlfriend and Sex

[rainebg]

okay so me and my gf have been friends for a two years we are so close and i love her alot. we always have good conversation we laugh etc and than a mothe or two ago we started to make out and than we started touching and stuff like that (we agreed to not have vaginal sex for a while). well now when i see her i wanna make out and touch and stuff a lot. a lot and is this just because it is new. will that desire lessen as it becomes older. I mean thats what i want to do a lot. we dont see eachother often by the way. 4-8 times a month. thanks

[iJack]

The point of this was?

[rainebg]

oh yeah i didnt ask a question did i lol i was asking if the desire to do sexual things with my gf will stop being so strong once it gets older.

[rsc4life]

Depends on whether you love her... But I suppose it just depends....

[serial-thrilla]

no, you'll just become more used to what your doing and want to take the next step.

[broadwaydude]

Well part of that desire is the fact that u don't see her that often like the other replier sAid if u love her maybe those desires will go away but only u cAn figure that out for urself

[byee]

Well, sex is a drive, it's a biological thing. As you get older, you learn how to control it more, but it's always there.

If you've got the drive, and it's being increased by doing sexual things, without the controls in place, I'd doubt that what you're experiencing will diminish. Think of it this way: A tank of gasoline is perfectly safe as long as it isn't near an open flame. You're the tank of gas, and the stuff you're exploring with her is potentially the open flame. The fire extinguisher is yet to be purchased (developed).

The biology of sex, the 'horniness' develops sooner than those controls, b/c they come from a part of the brain that is still growing and developing, and it takes longer for it to reach maturity. So, until then, you might want to exercise some caution and restraint.