do u have to scream

[DarkWingedAngel]

durring sex do u have to scream or make noise because i was with my ex and he asked me y i did not scream or make noise and i was like u don't have to and he said well they do in porn
so im asking u do u have to make any noise at all?

[Rutherford The Brave]

No you do not have to. Some people do, but personally I think its exaggerating it. But still do what makes you comfortable.

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok thanx

[ArtistInNeed]

i cant help making noise, haha. i cant just lay there and be quiet, ive tried. it feels too good haha

[DarkWingedAngel]

me im soo quiet my bf's get woried that they r doin somethin wrong

[byee]

Desi! Your b/f gives the perfect example of what I say a lot about porn: What's in there isn't necessarily real, and without experience many/most young 'uns just assume that sex is 'supposed' to be the way it is in porn. It's not, it's acting, afterall. 'Real' sex is very different.

tell your b/f to change his perspective here, and recognize that what happens in reality with you is, well, what's really real. And, if you're not into screaming/moaning/groaning that's just fine, b/c that's not what sex is about, anyway.

[Zephyr]

Exactly what Sam said = ]

There are screamers, moaners and silent people.
Everybody is different.

[DarkWingedAngel]

ok thanx

[Sapphire]

If your partner moans while you are intimate then you can be sure that they enjoy what you are doing. He probably just needs this reassurance that you are enjoying yourself.

[DarkWingedAngel]

so ur telling me that i have to tell him a like it
ok i guess i will try that

[BeautifulSilence]

It's up to you if you feel like making a noise. Some people enjoy sex more when they can... hear their partner's enjoyment ;)

Your boyfriend needs to know that basing his intercourse on the sex he sees in porn isn't exactly a good thing, because porn sex is completely physical and all about being visually (and auditory) pleasing / arousing and real sex should involve intamicy, thoughts, feelings and LOVE. :)

You may enjoy it more, if you try making false noises, as your partner will clearly enjoy it more. But it's a bit decieving as you may feel like you're acting. Just like porn is acted...

[flipper45]

i think u do o mean yo me i think that it lats go of some of the pain but thats just me

[kerry]

Nahh Not EveryOne Moans Or Makes Noises While Havinn Sex
Depends How Pleasured Youu Are
Maybe If Youu Was A Bit More Pleasured Youu Mayy Have Made A Noise Or Scream

[star_face]

sometime the pleasure and pains get's the best of you and you can't help but make a noise.

but i know what you mean sometimes if i'm really chilled out i'll be quiet and then they guy normaly thinks somethings wronge, it's deffently i reasurance thing.

you don't have to moan or scream tho,it does remind me of porn just abit too much, you can just tell him it feels good or you like whats he's doing.
x

[Attax]

sex is meant to be an expression of love and companionship so you dhould do what makes you feel comfortable

[The Pretender]

Porn is exagurated(sp) to try and make it more attractive.

[Alexa]

I feel better when I scream.

[ally.may33]

you don't have 2, but sometimes people make noise when they have an orgasm.

[Triceratops]

Haha, some people can't help making noises and and stuff ¬__¬
But if you don't want to make all these exaggerated screams and groans then you don't have to, just tell your boyfriend that you don't feel comfortable making "noises".

[ammber]

when i orgazm im silent so no one catches me masterbating is that ok

[ThatCanadianGuy]

when i orgazm im silent so no one catches me masterbating is that ok

That's totally ok! If you're "loud" when nobody is around that's ok too, but being quiet is good to keep your parents from catching you :rolleyes:

[kag9901900]

your 14 you sholdent be having sex

[DarkWingedAngel]

do you think i don't know that already
and anyways im going on 15 in 2 weeks
and can someone lock the darn thread

[Zephyr]

-Locked-

As requested by OP.