Poll: Your future wife's purity

[Attax]

This is just a poll that I was wondering, do you care about your wife being pure whenever you get married?

Yes

No

Apathetic


I personally do care, because I plan on waiting till marriage as well, and sex I feel is something sacred that should only be shared with someone you truly love, and obviously the most evident person of that would be your spouse. So what are your opinions on this?

[justateen93]

well if i married her then i would of accepted it but it might bother me a little especially if i was a virgin

[Maverick]

It doesn't at all matter to me. Like if shes been around the entire block that's different but being with someone else I don't see as a big deal.

[byee]

"Pure"?, Hmmmmmm.........................Hmmmmm..................


Pureness can be defined in many ways, my friend. By the time you meet your life partner, hopefully you will have learned what they are, so that any one will be largely irrelevant.

[Oblivion]

In today's society its hard to expect virginity at marriage
That doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't care, just I wouldn't judge or choose one person over the other because of it.

[Sapphire]

Expectation has no place in love.

If you truly love someone then it shouldn't matter if they have had a few sexual partners before dating and marrying you.

[Patchy]

In today's society its hard to expect virginity at marriage
That doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't care, just I wouldn't judge or choose one person over the other because of it.

I totally agree with you in this one

[theOperaGhost]

I agree with Ant. I wouldn't care if she wasn't a virgin, as long as she hasn't been sleeping around with a ton of guys. I will be surprised if I am still a virgin when I get married, and I'd be really surprised if I did marry a virgin. Very few people are waiting for marriage these days, and I don't have a problem with that.

[Θάνατος]

I agree with Jared and Ant. Marrying a virgin is not teh most important thing but, you don't want to marry the town slut who slept with every guy. The most important thing to remember is that you are both disease free. One thing that you should think about is that you don't want to be sleeping around yourself.

[waterplayer]

:cool:i think if you do get married that, that realastionship is more important to her and all of the sex before it is now meaningless:cool:

[Rutherford The Brave]

Marriage is the ultimate connection of tow people who love each other dearly. They are giving up all other chances with other people just for this one person who they dedicate themselves to. My question if someone was going to make that kind of commitment that they wouldn't care if their spouse was a virgin or not?

[lolboi06]

i would made that commitment

[khaos14]

I agree with Maverick here. As long as she wasn't "exchanging her services" before, I don't think it would bother me.:)

[ViciousScheme]

Absolutely. I might not even marry her if she had sex before marriage. Sure experimenting, but if I held my virginity until I was married I would expect the same. Everything else wouldn't make a difference to me.

[southcarolina]

honestly, I don't care, but she might be a little better at it if she's had some "previous experience"

[Sumitup]

I don't think it's a big deal...

[Atonement]

If I can wait that long and not have sex till marriage, shouldn't they do the same? Would they be some kind of asshole if they didn't? know. But, if I can wait, she can too.

[LeRoy_Fan]

I do care.

I care alot actually.

[Neverender]

no, because whats past is past, and its hard to avoid those things when your a teenager.

[Requin]

As long as she wasn't a prostitute and is clean of std's. Then i don't care...

[CoolBri94]

It doesn't at all matter to me. Like if shes been around the entire block that's different but being with someone else I don't see as a big deal.

That is how I feel too... It doesn't bother me unless she's REALLY been around and even then it might be ok as long as she doesn't have any STDs or kids I don't know about :P

[Nighter]

Yes.

However, most of my friends that are girls (One who I have a large interest in...) have had sex before, and in a way, it bothers me...

But, I won't get into that here.

[Antares]

In my opinion you should only care if you plan on being pure also.
If you are inpure then you have no grounds to critique others...but thats my personal opinion.

[Sapphire]

I honestly find the term "pure" in this sense to be offensive.
It's as if people are implying or telling me out right that I'm not good enough because I've had sex with someone I love before my wedding day.